{"id":222,"date":"2010-03-13T14:58:14","date_gmt":"2010-03-13T14:58:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harpa.blogg.is\/2010-03-13\/thaskildagatid\/"},"modified":"2010-03-13T14:58:14","modified_gmt":"2010-03-13T14:58:14","slug":"thaskildagatid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2010\/03\/13\/thaskildagatid\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00de\u00e1skildagat\u00ed\u00f0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tilefni f\u00e6rslunnar er feikigott vi\u00f0tal vi\u00f0 Erling Sigur\u00f0arson og Sigr\u00ed\u00f0i Stef\u00e1nsd\u00f3ttur \u00ed mogganum (mannsins) \u00ed dag (s. 14 – 17 \u00ed sunnudagsk\u00e1lfinum). \u00dear segir Sigr\u00ed\u00f0ur: “Ma\u00f0ur getur ekki lifa\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1skildagat\u00ed\u00f0; \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir ekki a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00ed hva\u00f0a sporum vi\u00f0 v\u00e6rum ef \u00feetta hef\u00f0i ekki gerst.” Frasinn \/ spakm\u00e6li\u00f0 hringla\u00f0i \u00ed k\u00fapunni og \u00e9g held \u00e9g hafi heyrt\u00a0\u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1\u00f0ur. \u00deetta er afskaplega vel heppna\u00f0ur frasi, sem \u00e9g er alveg samm\u00e1la. Hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 ergja sig yfir or\u00f0num hlut e\u00f0a s\u00f6kkva s\u00e9r \u00ed vangaveltur um hvernig l\u00edfi\u00f0 hef\u00f0i geta\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 ef eitthva\u00f0 hef\u00f0i ekki or\u00f0i\u00f0? Nei, \u00fe\u00e1 er n\u00fa betra a\u00f0 halda sig \u00ed deginum \u00ed dag! M\u00e9r finnst \u00e9g hafa fengi\u00f0 nokku\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0a \u00e6fingu \u00ed \u00feeirri l\u00edfspeki og m\u00e6li me\u00f0 henni. En \u00e9g \u00feekki alveg f\u00f3lk sem lifir \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1skildagat\u00ed\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Stundum vilja \u00fe\u00e1skildagat\u00ed\u00f0arsinnar\u00a0mj\u00f6g beita sinni speki \u00e1 a\u00f0ra. Dugir h\u00e9r a\u00f0 v\u00edsa til einkenna hem\u00fala, skv. Muminpappans Bravader skrivna av Honom Sj\u00e4lv<\/em> \u00fear sem segir:<\/p>\n

\u201cEn hemul har hemskt stora f\u00f6tter och ingen humor, f\u00f6rklarade jag [muminpappan]. N\u00e4san \u00e4r lite tillplattad och h\u00e5ret v\u00e4xer i obest\u00e4mda tottar. En hemul g\u00f6r ingenting d\u00e4rf\u00f6r att det \u00e4r roligt, utan bara f\u00f6r att det borde g\u00f6ras, och ber\u00e4ttar hela tiden f\u00f6r en vad man sj\u00e4lv borde ha gjort och \u2026 “(Muminpapappans Bravader<\/em> [1950] 1961: 16)<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00c9g reikna me\u00f0 a\u00f0 flestir \u00feekki einmitt hem\u00fala sem vita \u00f3spart hvernig a\u00f0rir hef\u00f0u \u00e1tt a\u00f0 haga s\u00e9r.\u00a0Svolei\u00f0is skyldur\u00e6kin \u00fe\u00e1skildagat\u00ed\u00f0 er kannski enn verri l\u00edfspeki en s\u00fa sem sumir lifa sj\u00e1lfir \u00ed … e\u00f0a hva\u00f0? (\u00c9g er ekki fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed stundum detti bloggynja sj\u00e1lf \u00ed hem\u00falafari\u00f0.)<\/p>\n

Af daufu bergm\u00e1li \u00fe\u00e1skildagat\u00ed\u00f0arfrasans kviknu\u00f0u minningar um a\u00f0ra frasa, flesta \u00e6tta\u00f0a \u00far AA e\u00f0a me\u00f0virknifr\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00cd vi\u00f0talinu sem \u00e9g nefndi \u00ed upphafi kemur einmitt fyrir upp\u00e1haldsfrasi Al-anon n\u00fa um stundir, a\u00f0 \u00e9g held: “Eymd er valkostur”.\u00a0 \u00c9g hef reyndar \u00fdmislegt vi\u00f0 \u00feennan a\u00f0 athuga en hugga mig vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hann er sennilega ekki hugsa\u00f0ur \u00fat fr\u00e1 eigin \u00feunglyndi. Sk\u00e1rri er \u00feessi: Ma\u00f0ur velur “a\u00f0 hanga \u00ed harminum”. \u00deennan m\u00e1 l\u00edka br\u00faka \u00e1 \u00feunglyndi \u00fev\u00ed hann gerir r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 harmurinn s\u00e9 kannski ekki \u00f3umfl\u00fdjanlegur, hins vegar s\u00e9 h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 kj\u00f3sa lei\u00f0 fram hj\u00e1 honum e\u00f0a a.m.k. a\u00f0 sleppa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 velta s\u00e9r beinl\u00ednis upp \u00far honum.<\/p>\n

Stundum hefur m\u00e9r flogi\u00f0 \u00ed hug a\u00f0 me\u00f0virknifrasar \u00fdmsir s\u00e9u dulinn mega-\u00e1hrifavaldur \u00e1 \u00edslenskt m\u00e1l. Ef gengi\u00f0 er \u00fat fr\u00e1 t\u00f6lulegum uppl\u00fdsingum S\u00c1\u00c1, \u00fear sem beinl\u00ednis vir\u00f0ist m\u00e6last a\u00f0 25% karlmanna \u00ed \u00e1rgangi leiti \u00ed me\u00f0fer\u00f0 fyrir fimmtugt og ef gert er r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 einhverjir\u00a0a\u00f0standendur hvers \u00feeirra leiti s\u00e9r a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar – \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00f3tr\u00falega st\u00f3r hluti \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0arinnar innanbor\u00f0s \u00ed f\u00edknar- e\u00f0a me\u00f0virknisamt\u00f6kum. Svo ekki s\u00e9 tala\u00f0 um alla \u00fe\u00e1 allskonar\u00a0me\u00f0virkni sem r\u00famast innan CODA<\/em>.\u00a0\u00a0Vegna nafnleyndar fer \u00feetta hins vegar ekki h\u00e1tt. M\u00e9r vitanlega hefur enginn sko\u00f0a\u00f0 \u00e1hrif beinna \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0inga \u00far amr\u00edskum me\u00f0virkni-b\u00f3kum \u00e1 m\u00e1lfar en \u00e9g held a\u00f0 \u00feau g\u00e6tu veri\u00f0 t\u00f6luver\u00f0.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1 taka sem d\u00e6mi “G\u00f3\u00f0ir hlutir gerast h\u00e6gt”. \u00deessi frasi f\u00f3r \u00f3endanlega \u00ed taugarnar \u00e1 m\u00e9r fyrir meir en \u00e1ratug. En m\u00e1lv\u00f6ndunarsinnar innan AA hafa lagt sig \u00ed l\u00edma vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 br\u00faka heldur “Me\u00f0 h\u00e6g\u00f0inni hefst \u00fea\u00f0” sem hugnast m\u00e9r miklu betur. V\u00e6ri spennandi a\u00f0 vita hvort fyrrnefndi frasinn h\u00f6f\u00f0i einkum til a\u00f0standenda og hinn s\u00ed\u00f0arnefndi til \u00f3virkra alk\u00f3h\u00f3lista … \u00e9g hef \u00e1 tilfinningunni a\u00f0 svo s\u00e9 en hef svo sem ekkert anna\u00f0 fyrir m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

\u00c1hrif p\u00e1skaeggjam\u00e1lsh\u00e1tta minnka \u00e1r fr\u00e1 \u00e1ri!<\/p>\n

P.S. Kann a\u00f0 gle\u00f0ja einhverja dygga lesendur a\u00f0 bloggynja er \u00ed miklum heilastarfsemibata: \u00c9g r\u00falla\u00f0i upp sunnudagskrossg\u00e1tunni \u00e1 engri stund!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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