{"id":247,"date":"2010-05-10T23:27:26","date_gmt":"2010-05-10T23:27:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harpa.blogg.is\/2010-05-10\/geddeildir-og-fordomar-i-tilefni-glaesilegs-vidtals\/"},"modified":"2010-05-10T23:27:26","modified_gmt":"2010-05-10T23:27:26","slug":"geddeildir-og-fordomar-i-tilefni-glaesilegs-vidtals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2010\/05\/10\/geddeildir-og-fordomar-i-tilefni-glaesilegs-vidtals\/","title":{"rendered":"Ge\u00f0deildir og ford\u00f3mar \u00ed tilefni gl\u00e6silegs vi\u00f0tals"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aldrei \u00feessu vant horf\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00cdsland \u00ed dag<\/em> (hef annars fyrir reglu a\u00f0 for\u00f0ast umgengni vi\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6ki sem J\u00f3n \u00c1sgeir og famil\u00eda eiga) – tilefni\u00f0 var vi\u00f0tal vi\u00f0 L\u00e1ru K Brynj\u00f3lfsd\u00f3ttur, sem \u00e9g fr\u00e9tti af af einsk\u00e6rri tilviljun. \u00cd stuttu m\u00e1li sagt fannst m\u00e9r L\u00e1ru (sem \u00e9g \u00feekki ekki neitt) m\u00e6last einstaklega vel en \u00fea\u00f0 setti a\u00f0 m\u00e9r hroll vi\u00f0 sumar l\u00fdsingarnar, eins og a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsv\u00edgskandid\u00f6tum s\u00e9 fleygt \u00ed fangaklefa hafi \u00feeir ekki t\u00edmasett sj\u00e1lfsv\u00edgi\u00f0 \u00e1 skrifstofut\u00edma! \u00c1 hva\u00f0a \u00f6ld lifum vi\u00f0?<\/p>\n

\u00c9g hef enga reynslu af B-gangi 33 C en rengi hennar fr\u00e1sagnir alls ekki – kannast auk \u00feess vi\u00f0 sumt anna\u00f0 sem h\u00fan l\u00fdsti eins og t.d. afskiptaleysi hj\u00fakrunarf\u00f3lks\u00a0og \u00e1hugaleysi \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g hafi\u00a0einstaka sinnum dvali\u00f0 \u00e1 annarri deild. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feetta alls ekki vi\u00f0 um alla en \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur suma.\u00a0M\u00edn reynsla er l\u00edka hreint ekki eins krassandi og reynsla L\u00e1ru … var meira sem \u00e1horfandi a\u00f0 gutli \u00ed vinnunni, sem \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma snerti mig ekki s\u00e9rlega miki\u00f0. Eftir \u00e1 s\u00e9\u00f0 er samt undarlegt a\u00f0 a\u00f0alsamskiptin og a\u00f0al\u00feerap\u00edan \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild skuli hafa veri\u00f0 sj\u00faklinganna \u00e1 milli og\u00a0jafnvel sj\u00faklinganna sj\u00e1lfra a\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9tta ranghugmyndir starfsf\u00f3lks.\u00a0\u00a0M\u00e6tti bera \u00feetta saman vi\u00f0 kennslu:\u00a0\u00a0Einstaka kennara er sk\u00edtsama um nemendur en langflestir reyna\u00a0sitt besta til a\u00f0 skila hverjum og einum nemanda a\u00f0eins \u00e1lei\u00f0is, sumir\u00a0kennarar leggja \u00e1 sig \u00f3m\u00e6lda vinnu til \u00feess. Sama finnst m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 gilda um hj\u00fakkur \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild, jafnvel a\u00f0ra starfsmenn einnig.\u00a0\u00cd kennslu er n\u00e1v\u00edgi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feeir kennarar sem nenna\u00a0ekki vinnunni sinni hr\u00f6kklast n\u00fa oftast \u00far starfi. Veit ekki me\u00f0 ge\u00f0deild.<\/p>\n

Mj\u00f6g l\u00fdsandi d\u00e6mi, a\u00f0 m\u00ednu mati, er \u00feetta sem L\u00e1ra skrifar \u00e1 bloggi\u00f0 sitt:<\/p>\n

“H\u00e9rna er ein gullinn settning sem starfsma\u00f0ur sp\u00edtalans sag\u00f0i vi\u00f0 mig daginn eftir sj\u00e1lfsv\u00edgtilraun m\u00edna\u00a0\u00a0 : \u00feegar f\u00e1vitum fer a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lga \u00ed kringum \u00feig er \u00fe\u00e1 ekki komin t\u00edmi til a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00ed eigin barm: \u00a0\u00deetta er \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnst a\u00f0 faga\u00f0ilar eigi a\u00f0 vinna \u00e1 sp\u00edtala, \u00feessi einstaklingur sem l\u00e9t \u00feessi or\u00f0 fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r hefur ekkert l\u00e6rt um ge\u00f0r\u00e6n vandam\u00e1l en vinnur samt hva\u00f0 n\u00e1nast me\u00f0 okkur sj\u00faklingunum….. \u00fearna er hann a\u00f0 gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far m\u00e9r og m\u00ednum sj\u00fakd\u00f3m.” (Sj\u00e1 “\u00dea\u00f0 sem betur m\u00e1 fara”, 09. ma\u00ed 2010 klukkan 14:17, http:\/\/girlinterrupted.bloggar.is\/gagnasafn\/2010\/05\/<\/a>)<\/font><\/p>\n

Frasinn “\u00deegar f\u00edflunum fj\u00f6lgar \u00ed kringum mann er kominn t\u00edmi til a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00ed eigin barm” er einmitt einn af \u00feeim vins\u00e6lli \u00ed nafnleyndu alka-samt\u00f6kunum. Einhvern t\u00edma heyr\u00f0i \u00e9g (kann a\u00f0 vera rangt) a\u00f0 starfsmenn \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild m\u00e6ttu ekki hafa legi\u00f0 \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild \u00e1\u00f0ur. En \u00fea\u00f0 er kannski kominn t\u00edmi til a\u00f0 setja einnig \u00feau skilyr\u00f0i a\u00f0 starfsmenn hafi ekki fari\u00f0 \u00ed \u00e1fengisme\u00f0fer\u00f0 til a\u00f0 tryggja a\u00f0 \u00f3fagl\u00e6r\u00f0ir (og fagl\u00e6r\u00f0ir) s\u00e9u ekki a\u00f0 sinna ge\u00f0sj\u00faku f\u00f3lki \u00fat fr\u00e1 eigin talibanatr\u00fabo\u00f0shugsj\u00f3n e\u00f0a \u00feeirri einu l\u00edfsleiknia\u00f0fer\u00f0 sem \u00feeir hafa l\u00e6rt (g\u00f3\u00f0 a\u00f0fer\u00f0\u00a0vi\u00f0 alk\u00f3h\u00f3lisma, me\u00f0virkni me\u00f0talin,\u00a0en gagnast n\u00e1tt\u00farlega ekki \u00e1 alla a\u00f0ra sj\u00fakd\u00f3ma!). \u00c9g hef \u00fea\u00f0 nefnilega \u00e1 tilfinningunni (er kannski svona paranoju\u00f0 og \u00fe\u00e1 b\u00fain a\u00f0 vera lengi) a\u00f0 sumt staffi\u00f0 \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild s\u00e9 \u00f3h\u00f3flega hallt undir alkafrasa og a\u00f0 AA-hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0in leysi allan vanda.<\/p>\n

Til samanbur\u00f0ar: Finnst einhverjum e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 starfsma\u00f0ur kvensj\u00fakd\u00f3madeildar seg\u00f0i eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1l\u00edka vi\u00f0 konu sem hefur misst f\u00f3stur, er vart m\u00f6nnum sinnandi og segir \u00fdmislegt\u00a0vanhugsa\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeirri hugar\u00e6singu? Af samanbur\u00f0i (enda hef\u00a0\u00e9g talsver\u00f0a reynslu af hvoru tveggja) er l\u00ed\u00f0anin enn verri \u00ed \u00feunglyndi og kv\u00ed\u00f0a og\u00a0au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00e6tti ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 gera r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 starfsma\u00f0ur \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild st\u00e6\u00f0i sig eins og manneskja en ekki eins og fr\u00edk, undir sl\u00edkum kringumst\u00e6\u00f0um.\u00a0<\/p>\n

[Sem minnir mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 mig hefur undanfari\u00f0 bl\u00f3\u00f0langa\u00f0 a\u00f0 segja vi\u00f0 n\u00e6sta AA mann sem kvartar undan kvefpest: Ja, \u00fe\u00fa hefur bara ekki unni\u00f0 sporin n\u00f3gu vel!\u00a0 En \u00feetta er n\u00e1tt\u00farlega \u00fat\u00fard\u00far og s\u00fdnir eing\u00f6ngu\u00a0t\u00edkarlegt innr\u00e6ti bloggynju \ud83d\ude09 ]<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g man sk\u00e1st af s\u00ed\u00f0ustu ge\u00f0deildarvist var a\u00f0 eftir hr\u00e6\u00f0ilega helgi, \u00fear sem m\u00e9r lei\u00f0 \u00f3l\u00fdsanlega illa en h\u00e9lt f\u00e9sinu \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e9r er illa vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta fyrir framan a\u00f0ra og f\u00e9kk margar heims\u00f3knir \u00feessa helgi, var \u00fea\u00f0 samd\u00f3ma \u00e1lit staffsins, a\u00f0allega hj\u00fakrunarkvenna ef \u00e9g man r\u00e9tt \u00a0(\u00e1 einhverjum m\u00edn\u00edmal\u00edskum fundi) a\u00f0 m\u00e9r\u00a0hef\u00f0i\u00a0bara hreint li\u00f0i\u00f0 pr\u00fd\u00f0ilega og veri\u00f0 k\u00e1t og hress \u00feessa helgi. S\u00f3 m\u00f6ts fyrir inns\u00e6i\u00f0 \u00ed sj\u00fakd\u00f3minn e\u00f0a bara \u00feekkingu bygg\u00f0a \u00e1 reynslu. \u00c9g man a\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3tti \u00e9g algerlega svikin og efa\u00f0ist n\u00e1tt\u00farlega um eigin ge\u00f0heilsu (kannski r\u00e9tti sta\u00f0urinn til \u00feess, \u00e9g vi\u00f0urkenni \u00fea\u00f0); Af hverju lei\u00f0\u00a0m\u00e9r eins og mig langa\u00f0i a\u00f0 deyja\u00a0\u00feegar s\u00e9rmennta\u00f0a f\u00f3lki\u00f0 taldi mig k\u00e1ta og hressa? Vanta\u00f0i bara a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 seg\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekkert a\u00f0 m\u00e9r! \u00deegar \u00e9g andm\u00e6lti \u00feessu samd\u00f3ma \u00e1liti var eins og m\u00e1li\u00f0 v\u00e6ri a\u00f0\u00a0l\u00e1ta mig \u00e9ta\u00a0andm\u00e6lin ofan \u00ed mig … \u00ed minningunni er \u00feetta eins og \u00e9g v\u00e6ri\u00a0or\u00f0in kr\u00f3u\u00f0 af \u00fati \u00ed horni, gott ef ekki upp vi\u00f0 \u00fevottav\u00e9l, og l\u00e6knirinn spur\u00f0i hvort \u00e9g\u00a0teldi mig\u00a0betur geta meti\u00f0\u00a0eigi\u00f0 hugar\u00e1stand en s\u00e9rmennta\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lk! \u00c9g f\u00f3r au\u00f0vita\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00e1gr\u00e1ta \u00feegar ekki einu sinni hann tr\u00fa\u00f0i m\u00e9r! N\u00fana, \u00feegar \u00e9g skrifa \u00feetta, finn \u00e9g hva\u00f0 \u00e9g er enn\u00fe\u00e1 ofbo\u00f0slega rei\u00f0 en \u00e1 \u00feessum t\u00edma gat \u00e9g au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekki bori\u00f0 h\u00f6nd yfir h\u00f6fu\u00f0 m\u00e9r, nema\u00a0kannski me\u00f0 t\u00edkarlegu sparki undir beltissta\u00f0, sem \u00e9g i\u00f0ra\u00f0ist s\u00ed\u00f0ar mj\u00f6g.<\/p>\n

Svolei\u00f0is a\u00f0 n\u00fa vil \u00e9g allt til vinna til a\u00f0 lenda ekki inn \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild. \u00dea\u00f0 er brj\u00e1l\u00e6\u00f0islegur h\u00e1va\u00f0i \u00ed sj\u00f3nvarpi \u00fear alla daga, b\u00e6kurnar eru \u00ed alv\u00f6ru vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 grotna \u00ed sundur og \u00fea\u00f0 er alveg satt sem L\u00e1ra segir a\u00f0 l\u00e6knir e\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur sinnir manni svona 5 m\u00edn\u00fatur \u00e1 dag en annars geta sj\u00faklingarnir bara \u00e1tt sig og reynt a\u00f0 hafa hver ofan af fyrir \u00f6\u00f0rum. Margar konur eru betur settar \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00e6r geta \u00fe\u00f3 prj\u00f3na\u00f0 en karlarnir ver\u00f0a bara a\u00f0 r\u00e1fa stefnulaust um. F\u00f6ndura\u00f0sta\u00f0an \u00e1 minni deild f\u00f3lst einkum \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00e1la \u00e1 gifs-styttur og var opin eitthva\u00f0 um 2 t\u00edma \u00e1 dag nema \u00feegar f\u00f6ndurkonan var veik. \u00dearna er engin s\u00e9rst\u00f6k batadagskr\u00e1 \u00ed gangi,\u00a0fr\u00e6\u00f0sla um ge\u00f0sj\u00fakd\u00f3ma e\u00f0a uppbyggingarstarf\u00a0 nema \u00f6rsjaldan (prestur einu sinni \u00ed viku, t\u00f3nlistar\u00feerap\u00eda \u00ed m\u00fdflugumynd o.s.fr.) Sem betur fer reyki \u00e9g og \u00fea\u00f0 bjarga\u00f0i d\u00f6gunum a\u00f0 fara \u00fat til a\u00f0 reykja. Ge\u00f0deild er \u00ed rauninni afar reykingahvetjandi. H\u00e1punktar dagsins voru matart\u00edmar (\u00fea\u00f0 er a.m.k. eitthva\u00f0 um a\u00f0 vera) en \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur er sp\u00edtalamatur n\u00e1nast \u00f3\u00e6tur.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g lag\u00f0ist fyrst inn \u00e1 ge\u00f0deild 1998, \u00e1 A-ganginn \u00e1 deildinni sem L\u00e1ra l\u00fdsir, og \u00fear var akk\u00farat sama sagan \u00fe\u00e1. \u00deannig a\u00f0 \u00e9g held a\u00f0 afskiptaleysi gagnvart sj\u00faklingum, jafnvel hunsun, hafi ekkert me\u00f0 fj\u00e1rveitingar a\u00f0 gera. \u00cd lok s\u00ed\u00f0asta \u00e1rs s\u00fdndist m\u00e9r a\u00f0 ge\u00f0deildin hin v\u00e6ri \u00fea\u00f0 vel m\u00f6nnu\u00f0 a\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lk v\u00e6ri \u00e1l\u00edka margt, jafnvel fleira, en sj\u00faklingarnir.<\/p>\n

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\u00dea\u00f0 sem kannski g\u00e6ti laga\u00f0 ge\u00f0deildir einna mest er a\u00f0 starfsf\u00f3lki\u00f0 l\u00e6r\u00f0i (t.d. \u00e1 n\u00e1mskei\u00f0um) a\u00f0 bera vir\u00f0ingu fyrir sj\u00faklingunum, bygg\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00feekkingu \u00e1 ge\u00f0sj\u00fakd\u00f3mum.\u00a0Sj\u00faklingarnir v\u00f6ldu nefnilega\u00a0ekki a\u00f0 vera svona veikir e\u00f0a geta ekki haga\u00f0 s\u00e9r eins og Dorrit \u00ed tebo\u00f0i alla daga. Alveg eins og kennarar eiga a\u00f0 s\u00fdna nemendum vir\u00f0ingu bygg\u00f0a \u00e1 skilningi\u00a0\u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feeir s\u00e9u \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt fatla\u00f0ir e\u00f0a ekki n\u00e1msmenn par excellance. \u00c9g vorkenni hj\u00fakkum ekki neitt a\u00f0 s\u00fdna sj\u00faklingum\u00a0umhyggju og al\u00fa\u00f0, frekar en kennurum a\u00f0 vera almennilegir vi\u00f0 nemendur s\u00edna. B\u00e1\u00f0ar st\u00e9ttir eru menntaf\u00f3lk en \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa kl\u00e1ra\u00f0 nokkur \u00e1r \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3la gefur f\u00f3lki ekki leyfi til a\u00f0\u00a0ni\u00f0url\u00e6gja skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0inga s\u00edna, hvorki \u00e1 sp\u00edt\u00f6lum e\u00f0a \u00ed sk\u00f3la.<\/p>\n

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Af m\u00e9r er annars \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 fr\u00e9tta a\u00f0 m\u00e9r batnar ekki h\u00e6tis h\u00f3t af hinu n\u00fdja kraftaverkalyfi …\u00a0en \u00far \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera svona miki\u00f0 kraftaverkalyf er best a\u00f0 fullreyna\u00a0\u00e1\u00f0ur en\u00a0\u00fev\u00ed er hent.\u00a0Marga daga l\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e9r dj\u00f6fullega. \u00c9g er t.d. \u00f6rugglega alltof veik til a\u00f0 h\u00f6ndla ge\u00f0deildarvist \u00ed augnablikinu. Aftur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti er talsver\u00f0ur \u00e1vinningur af kv\u00ed\u00f0an\u00e1mskei\u00f0inu sem \u00e9g s\u00e6ki einu sinni \u00ed viku, \u00fear l\u00e6ri \u00e9g margt nytsamlegt en er ekki n\u00e6rri n\u00f3gu dugleg a\u00f0 \u00e6fa mig milli t\u00edma. Lei\u00f0beinendur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed n\u00e1mskei\u00f0i eru yndislegir\u00a0og kl\u00e1rir og\u00a0skipulag\u00f0ir og tala aldrei ni\u00f0ur til nokkurs \u00fe\u00e1tttakanda.<\/p>\n

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Og svo er \u00e9g byrju\u00f0 a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a gr\u00edskar eyjar og strendur og ferjusiglingar milli sta\u00f0a og svolei\u00f0is … \u00dea\u00f0 er lj\u00faft!<\/p>\n

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