{"id":258,"date":"2010-07-23T13:36:10","date_gmt":"2010-07-23T13:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harpa.blogg.is\/2010-07-23\/glansmyndir-fesbokar\/"},"modified":"2010-07-23T13:36:10","modified_gmt":"2010-07-23T13:36:10","slug":"glansmyndir-fesbokar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2010\/07\/23\/glansmyndir-fesbokar\/","title":{"rendered":"Glansmyndir f\u00e9sb\u00f3kar"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9g hef undanfari\u00f0 legi\u00f0 d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 yfir f\u00e9sb\u00f3k \/ snj\u00e1ldurskruddu \/ feisb\u00fakk \/ facebook og reynt a\u00f0 \u00e1tta mig \u00e1 fyrirb\u00e6rinu. \u00deetta er \u00f3tr\u00falega yfirbor\u00f0skenndur samasta\u00f0ur enda einungis m\u00f6gulegar \u00f6rstuttar f\u00e6rslur (statusar) og megni\u00f0 af lesendum \u00feeirra nennir \u00ed h\u00e6sta lagi a\u00f0 smella \u00e1 “Like” (er me\u00f0 enskt vi\u00f0m\u00f3t uppi vi\u00f0 sem af dularfullum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um breytist stundum \u00ed danskt), g\u00e6ti tr\u00faa\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feetta h\u00e9ti “L\u00edkar” \u00e1 \u00e1stk\u00e6ra ylh\u00fdra.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g tek mest eftir er hve notendum er umhuga\u00f0 um a\u00f0 s\u00fdna einhvers konar glansmyndir af s\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfum. \u00de\u00e6r s\u00ed\u00f0ur sem \u00e9g sko\u00f0a eru flest s\u00ed\u00f0ur f\u00f3lks \u00e1 langbesta aldri, \u00fe.e.a.s. \u00e1 m\u00ednum aldri + \/ – 10 \u00e1r. En einnig hef \u00e9g sko\u00f0a\u00f0 soldi\u00f0 unglingas\u00ed\u00f0ur (af \u00f3\u00feolandi e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gri hn\u00fdsni, a\u00f0 mati sonar m\u00edns) og s\u00e9 ekki betur en glansmyndas\u00fdningar s\u00e9u jafn-algengar \u00fear, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00e6r s\u00e9u \u00ed svol\u00edti\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum st\u00edl.<\/p>\n

H\u00e9r er r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 stinga \u00fev\u00ed inn\u00ed a\u00f0 mikill meirihluti f\u00f3lks vir\u00f0ist hafa s\u00ed\u00f0urnar s\u00ednar galopnar svolei\u00f0is a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur \u00fearf ekki a\u00f0 “vingast” vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0komandi til a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a hva\u00f0 hann skrifar e\u00f0a hva\u00f0a komment eru skrifu\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00e6rslurnar. Og \u00fe\u00f3tt f\u00f3lk hafi l\u00e6star s\u00ed\u00f0ur dugir a\u00f0 finna eitt komment \u00f3l\u00e6sts\u00a0\u00e1 l\u00e6sta f\u00e6rslu til a\u00f0 komast inn \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6rslu og sko\u00f0a \u00f6ll komment \u00fear. \u00deannig a\u00f0 l\u00e6sing \u00e1 feisb\u00fakk er frekar l\u00e9leg v\u00f6rn nema n\u00e1tt\u00farlega a\u00f0 enginn kommenti nokkru sinni \u00e1 nokkra f\u00e6rslu hins l\u00e6sta. \u00de.a.l. er f\u00e9sb\u00f3kin draumasta\u00f0ur fyrir pers\u00f3nunj\u00f3snir, \u00fe.e.a.s. til a\u00f0 snu\u00f0ra uppi fj\u00f6lskylduhagi, fj\u00f6lskyldumyndir o.\u00fe.h. (V\u00e1! \u00derj\u00e1r skammstafanir \u00ed einni m\u00e1lsgrein!)<\/p>\n

\u00cd rauninni er alveg eins gott a\u00f0 b\u00faa s\u00e9r til linkas\u00ed\u00f0u \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e9sb\u00f3karf\u00f3lk sem ma\u00f0ur sko\u00f0ar eins og a\u00f0 “vingast f\u00e9sb\u00f3karlega” vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. \u00deessu nenni \u00e9g \u00fe\u00f3 alls ekki enda n\u00e6r meint e\u00f0lisl\u00e6g hn\u00fdsnin ekki nema sjaldan yfirh\u00f6ndinni \u00ed m\u00ednu s\u00e1larl\u00edfi. Og \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki eins og f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 a\u00f0 skrifa neitt merkilegt; eins og \u00e9g nefndi \u00ed upphafi er samasta\u00f0urinn hjal og yfirbor\u00f0smennska a\u00f0 st\u00e6rstum hluta. Svo \u00e9g held mig \u00e1fram vi\u00f0 f\u00e1mennt f\u00e9sb\u00f3karvinasafn sem dekkar f\u00f3lki\u00f0 sem \u00e9g nenni \u00ed rauninni a\u00f0 fylgjast me\u00f0 – e\u00f0a er neydd til hafa: Annar sonurinn t\u00f3k \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3stinnt upp \u00feegar \u00e9g grisja\u00f0i enn betur \u00ed “vinagr\u00fappunni” og sag\u00f0i: “Ma\u00f0ur d\u00f6mpar ekki s\u00ednum eigin syni!” – sem kann a\u00f0 vera PC r\u00e9tt \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n

En a\u00f0 yfirbor\u00f0skenndu glansmyndinni: Flestir skrifa “status” \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0: “Er \u00ed vinnunni en samt er s\u00f3l” e\u00f0a “Hengdi \u00fat \u00e1 sn\u00farur” e\u00f0a “F\u00f3r \u00ed fer\u00f0alag og t\u00f3k myndir” e\u00f0a “Klippti hundinn” (n\u00f3 offens!) e\u00f0a “Gaman a\u00f0 hitta ykkur um helgina”\u00a0e\u00f0a “sau\u00f0 k\u00e6sta sk\u00f6tu \u00ed kv\u00f6ldmatinn” …\u00a0o.s.fr.<\/p>\n

Ef f\u00f3lk er ekki algerlega sko\u00f0analausir englar g\u00e6tir \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feess samt a\u00f0 segja n\u00fa ekkert sem ekki er fullkomlega PC (p\u00f3lit\u00edskur t\u00edsku-r\u00e9ttr\u00fana\u00f0ur) og linkar \u00ed sta\u00f0inn \u00ed hugsanlega umdeilda fr\u00e9tt, me\u00f0 athugasemdinni “\u00deetta er athyglisvert!” e\u00f0a “\u00d3tr\u00falegt en satt!” e\u00f0a einverju meinleysishjali\u00a0sem alls ekki getur kallast a\u00f0 hafa sko\u00f0un \u00e1 fyrirb\u00e6rinu. Annar m\u00f6guleiki til a\u00f0 halda hreinleikanum og glansmyndinni er a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt (join) f\u00e9sb\u00f3kargr\u00fappu me\u00f0 bo\u00f0skap, t.d. “B\u00f6nnum lausag\u00f6ngu katta” e\u00f0a “Fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem vilja\u00a0EKKI banna lausag\u00f6ngu katta” e\u00f0a “Sty\u00f0jum konuna sem vill hafa lei\u00f0s\u00f6guhund \u00ed blokkinni sinni” en g\u00e6ta \u00feess svo gr\u00ed\u00f0arlega vandlega a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig ekkert inni \u00e1 gr\u00fappunni – \u00fe\u00e1 g\u00e6ti falli\u00f0 \u00e1 f\u00e9sb\u00f3karmyndarsilfri\u00f0. Flestir skr\u00e1 sig samt \u00ed p\u00f3lit\u00edskt r\u00e9ttar gr\u00fappur eins og “Afm\u00e6lisgj\u00f6f til \u00d3mars” e\u00f0a “\u00c1rb\u00e6jarsafn” e\u00f0a “Prj\u00f3na.net” o.s.fr., sums\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 sem h\u00f6f\u00f0ar til r\u00f3mant\u00edskra meintra n\u00e1tt\u00faruelskenda \u00e1 m\u00f6linni.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 eina t\u00edkarlega sem notendur vir\u00f0ast \u00f3\u00e1tali\u00f0 geta leyft s\u00e9r er a\u00f0 finna a\u00f0 m\u00e1lfari annarra e\u00f0a hneykslast \u00e1 einhverjum m\u00e1lfarsvillum\u00a0sem einhver skrifa\u00f0i annars sta\u00f0ar e\u00f0a f\u00e9sb\u00f3karhafi heyr\u00f0i einhvers sta\u00f0ar. A\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru leyti gildir “vi\u00f0 h\u00f6ldum okkur utan vi\u00f0 \u00feras og \u00fer\u00e6tur og t\u00f6kum ekki afst\u00f6\u00f0u til opinberra m\u00e1la”-m\u00f3rallinn og menn linka og segja “Athyglisvert” eins og vel\u00feenkjandi englar. \u00c9g b\u00ed\u00f0 eftir a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 linka\u00f0 \u00ed mor\u00f0fr\u00e9tt me\u00f0 yfirl\u00fdsingu f\u00e9sb\u00f3karhafa um a\u00f0 fr\u00e9ttin s\u00e9 “Athyglisver\u00f0”.<\/p>\n

Afar f\u00e1t\u00edtt vir\u00f0ist vera a\u00f0 menn gangi \u00far gr\u00fappum, s\u00e9 \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 einhverjir eru n\u00fana a\u00f0 yfirgefa “\u00cdsland ekki \u00ed ESB” af \u00fev\u00ed stofnandinn ku hafa spreyja\u00f0 l\u00e1saspreyi \u00ed augu tveggja \u00e1ra n\u00e1grannabarns s\u00edns \u00ed Gar\u00f0ab\u00e6num. \u00deeir eru samt\u00a0afar f\u00e1ir enda vegur kannski \u00feyngra a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er PC\u00a0 a\u00f0\u00a0vera skr\u00e1\u00f0ur \u00ed gr\u00fappu me\u00f0 \u00feessu nafni,\u00a0gefur skr\u00e1\u00f0um hinn n\u00e1tt\u00faruv\u00e6na, gr\u00e6na sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0isbl\u00e6. S\u00e9rstaklega ef \u00feeir passa sig \u00e1 a\u00f0\u00a0\u00feegja stafr\u00e6nt.<\/p>\n

Eins og dyggir blogglesendur m\u00ednir sj\u00e1 n\u00e1tt\u00farlega \u00ed hendi s\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 hentar ford\u00f3mafullri manneskju eins og m\u00e9r ekkert s\u00e9rstaklega vel a\u00f0 br\u00faka f\u00e9sb\u00f3k til tj\u00e1ningar, eing\u00f6ngu. \u00c9g get n\u00e1tt\u00farlega reynt a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 setja mig \u00ed f\u00e9sb\u00f3karstellingu einu sinni \u00e1 dag, svona svipa\u00f0 og ma\u00f0ur reynir a\u00f0 s\u00fdna s\u00edna bestu ford\u00f3malausu og j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0u hli\u00f0 \u00e1 sunnudags-AA-fundi. \u00deetta er l\u00edklega g\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e6fing \u00ed j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0ni. \u00de\u00f3 ver\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnast f\u00e6rslur sem fara eil\u00edti\u00f0 \u00fat af engilssporinu miklu skemmtilegri … kannski af \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g \u00feekki svol\u00edti\u00f0 af englak\u00f3rnum og s\u00e9 \u00feess vegna a\u00f0 f\u00e9sb\u00f3karhli\u00f0in \u00feeirra er tilt\u00f6lulega langt fr\u00e1 e\u00f0lilegum pers\u00f3nuleika.<\/p>\n

Svolei\u00f0is a\u00f0 \u00e9g er a\u00f0 hugsa um a\u00f0 hverfa \u00far bloggsumarfr\u00edi, setja \u00ed AA-g\u00edrinn svona einu sinni \u00e1 dag og f\u00e9sb\u00f3kast en halda annars \u00e1fram a\u00f0 takmarka m\u00edna “vinaeign” vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sem mig langar \u00ed alv\u00f6ru til a\u00f0 fylgjast me\u00f0 og k\u00edkja \u00e1 hina \u00ed gr\u00edni, \u00feegar hn\u00fdsnin gr\u00edpur mig.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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