{"id":310,"date":"2011-01-14T20:16:51","date_gmt":"2011-01-14T20:16:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harpa.blogg.is\/2011-01-14\/fornarlomb-sidblindra-konur\/"},"modified":"2011-01-14T20:16:51","modified_gmt":"2011-01-14T20:16:51","slug":"fornarlomb-sidblindra-konur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2011\/01\/14\/fornarlomb-sidblindra-konur\/","title":{"rendered":"F\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb si\u00f0blindra: Konur"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><font size=\"-1\"><\/font><font size=\"3\">31. des. 2011: \u00c9g hef ofi\u00f0 si\u00f0blinduf\u00e6rslurnar og \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00fe\u00e6gilegra a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a efni\u00f0 \u00e1 vef heldur en \u00ed \u00feessu bloggumhverfi. Sl\u00f3\u00f0in er: <\/font><font size=\"-1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/sidblinda.com\/\"><strong>http:\/\/sidblinda.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><\/font><b><font size=\"-1\">\u00de\u00f3famj\u00fak r\u00e1nd\u00fdr sem l\u00e6\u00f0ast: Si\u00f0blinda, III hluti<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"2\">(Finna m\u00e1 a\u00f0rar f\u00e6rslur um si\u00f0blindu \u00ed efnisflokknum <em>Si\u00f0blinda<\/em>,\u00a0sj\u00e1 Flokka h\u00e9r til h\u00e6gri.)<\/font><\/p>\n<p><b><font size=\"-1\">F\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb si\u00f0blindra: Konur, makar og b\u00f6rn<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" hspace=\"7\" vspace=\"7\" border=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.this.is\/harpa\/sidblinda\/ulfsaugu.jpg?resize=95%2C80\" align=\"left\" height=\"80\" width=\"95\" \/><font size=\"-1\">Ef vi\u00f0 treystum ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0um Roberts Hare o.fl. um a\u00f0 si\u00f0blindir s\u00e9u um 1% f\u00f3lks<sup>1<\/sup> og gerum r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 a.m.k. 5 manns tengist hverjum \u00feeirra n\u00e1num b\u00f6ndum \u00fe\u00e1 er auglj\u00f3st a\u00f0 hver og einn si\u00f0blindur veldur miklum ska\u00f0a. Seinna fjalla \u00e9g ver\u00f0ur fjalla\u00f0 um si\u00f0blinda \u00e1 \u00fdmsum svi\u00f0um samf\u00e9lagsins. En n\u00e6stu f\u00e6rslur eru um \u00e1hrif si\u00f0blindra \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 sem standa \u00feeim n\u00e6st, \u00fe.e. elskendur, maka, b\u00f6rn; byrja\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00e1stkonum. Almennt gildir a\u00f0 si\u00f0blindir reyna a\u00f0 n\u00e1 algeru valdi yfir minni m\u00e1ttar.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">Si\u00f0blindir leita s\u00e9r ekki hj\u00e1lpar af sj\u00e1lfsd\u00e1\u00f0um enda sj\u00e1 \u00feeir ekki a\u00f0 neitt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 s\u00e9r. En innan velfer\u00f0arkerfisins rekst f\u00f3lk \u00f3beint \u00e1 hina si\u00f0blindu, gegnum alla \u00fe\u00e1 sem si\u00f0blindir hafa \u00e1reitt og alla \u00fe\u00e1 sem bera varanlegan ska\u00f0a eftir \u00fe\u00e1 reynslu.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feekkja einkenni si\u00f0blindu getur ma\u00f0ur betur \u00e1tta\u00f0 sig \u00e1 sl\u00edkum einstaklingum \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur hittir \u00fe\u00e1, til a\u00f0 geta viki\u00f0 s\u00e9r undan. S\u00e9 ma\u00f0ur \u00feegar fastur \u00ed vef hins si\u00f0blinda er tvennt<\/font> <font size=\"-1\">sem kemur til greina: A\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hart m\u00e6ta h\u00f6r\u00f0u vi\u00f0 hinn si\u00f0blinda e\u00f0a for\u00f0a s\u00e9r. Hvort tveggja tekur t\u00edma, er erfitt, s\u00e1rsaukafullt og jafnvel h\u00e6ttulegt en borgar sig \u00feegar til lengri t\u00edma er liti\u00f0.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">Me\u00f0 aukinni \u00feekkingu m\u00e1 vonast til a\u00f0 f\u00e6rri hafni \u00ed greipum si\u00f0blindra og a\u00f0 allir sem \u00feegar eru fastir \u00ed heljargreipum \u00feeirra geri s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 lj\u00f3st og sleppi.<sup>2<\/sup><\/font><br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><b><font size=\"-1\">Konur<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">Hvernig konur h\u00f6f\u00f0a einkum til si\u00f0blindra og hva\u00f0 ber a\u00f0 varast?<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">* Svo vir\u00f0ist sem si\u00f0blindir s\u00e6kist fyrst og fremst eftir konum sem \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt eiga undir h\u00f6gg a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja, eru <b>einmana<\/b> e\u00f0a <b>veikar fyrir<\/b> \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt (t.d. andlega). Kaldlynd misnotkun hinna einmana er a\u00f0alsmerki si\u00f0blindra.<sup>3<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0 Sj\u00e1 <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.this.is\/harpa\/sidblinda\/daemi_fornarlomb_konur.html#D\u00e6mi 1\" title=\"D\u00e6mi um f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb si\u00f0blindu\">D\u00e6mi 1<\/a><\/i>.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">* Bent hefur veri\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi \u00f3hugnalega gott auga fyrir konum sem eru <b>m\u00f3\u00f0urlegar<\/b> \u00ed e\u00f0li s\u00ednu, \u00fe.e.a.s. sem vilja hj\u00e1lpa og a\u00f0sto\u00f0a a\u00f0ra af bestu getu. Margar sl\u00edkar konur vinna vi\u00f0 um\u00f6nnunarst\u00f6rf, s.s. hj\u00fakrun, f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f e\u00f0a annars konar r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f &#8211; og h\u00e6ttir til a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0mennsku \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0rum og yfirsj\u00e1st e\u00f0a draga \u00far um lei\u00f0 g\u00f6llunum. \u201eHann \u00e1 vissulega vi\u00f0 vandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a en \u00e9g get hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0 honum\u201c e\u00f0a \u201eHann \u00e1tti svo erfi\u00f0a bernsku, allt sem hann \u00fearfnast er einhver sem vill fa\u00f0ma hann\u201c. \u00deessar konur munu l\u00edklega \u00feola mikla misnotkun \u00ed \u00feeirri sta\u00f0f\u00f6stu tr\u00fa sinni a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r geti hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0; \u00fe\u00e6r eru tilb\u00fanar til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta skilja sig eftir tilfinningalega, s\u00e1larlega og efnahagslega m\u00e1ttvana.<sup>4<\/sup>\u00a0\u00a0 Sj\u00e1 <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.this.is\/harpa\/sidblinda\/daemi_fornarlomb_konur.html#D\u00e6mi 2\" title=\"D\u00e6mi um f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb si\u00f0blindu\">D\u00e6mi 2<\/a><\/i>.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">* G\u00f3\u00f0mennska fer \u00ed taugarnar \u00e1 si\u00f0blindum og \u00feeir reyna oft a\u00f0 nappa <b>g\u00f3\u00f0ar<\/b> konur.<sup>5<\/sup><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">* Robert Hare vitnar \u00ed grein sem birtst \u00ed <i>New Woman<\/i> t\u00edmaritinu [bresku t\u00edmariti sem kemur ekki lengur \u00fat]\u00a0 og h\u00e9t \u201eThe Con Man&#8217;s New Victim\u201c. \u00cd greininni var bent \u00e1 \u00feann \u00f3fyrirs\u00e9\u00f0a m\u00f6guleika a\u00f0 <b>konur sem st\u00e6\u00f0u fj\u00e1rhagslega \u00e1 eigin f\u00f3tum<\/b>, sem er n\u00faor\u00f0i\u00f0 afar algengt, g\u00e6tu or\u00f0i\u00f0 si\u00f0blindum a\u00f0 br\u00e1\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fe\u00e6r eru \u00ed leit a\u00f0 elskhuga. Si\u00f0blindir sitji um svolei\u00f0is konur sem jafnframt eru \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mar fyrir, \u00e1 b\u00f6rum, \u00ed heilsur\u00e6kt og \u00ed f\u00e9lagsstarfi. \u00de\u00f3tt svindlarinn \u00feekki konurnar au\u00f0veldlega \u00far \u00ed mann\u00fer\u00f6nginni, fellur hann sj\u00e1lfur inn \u00ed hva\u00f0a h\u00f3p sem er. Benda m\u00e1 \u00e1 a\u00f0 hann l\u00edtur oft vel \u00fat, er heillandi, m\u00e1lgla\u00f0ur, sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6ruggur, vill r\u00e1\u00f0skast me\u00f0 f\u00f3lk og er vafalaust h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a \u00e1stfangin af honum.<sup>6<\/sup><\/font><br \/>\n<font size=\"-1\">Fyrir utan \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.this.is\/harpa\/sidblinda\/thekkja_sidblindu_glass_listinn.html\" title=\"Einkenni si\u00f0blindu\">\u00feekkja einkenni si\u00f0blindu<\/a> og g\u00e6ta s\u00edn \u00e1 m\u00f6nnum sem konur hitta augliti til auglitis borgar sig a\u00f0 hafa einnig eftirfarandi \u00ed huga:<\/font><\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" hspace=\"7\" vspace=\"7\" border=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.this.is\/harpa\/sidblinda\/hannibal.jpg?resize=95%2C69\" alt=\"Hannibal the cannibal\" align=\"left\" height=\"69\" width=\"95\" \/><font size=\"-1\">Sumir si\u00f0blindir, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feeir sem sitja \u00ed fangelsi, notf\u00e6ra s\u00e9r einkam\u00e1lad\u00e1lka, segir Robert Hare.\u00a0 Sj\u00e1 <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.this.is\/harpa\/sidblinda\/daemi_fornarlomb_konur.html#D\u00e6mi 3\" title=\"D\u00e6mi um f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb si\u00f0blindu\">D\u00e6mi 3<\/a><\/i>. N\u00fa veit \u00e9g ekki hva\u00f0 einkam\u00e1lad\u00e1lkar eru miki\u00f0 nota\u00f0ir n\u00fatildags en \u00ed sta\u00f0inn hafa komi\u00f0 t\u00f6lvusamskipti. Me\u00f0 Netinu hafa vei\u00f0ilendur hinna si\u00f0blindu margfaldast. Donna Anderson skrifa\u00f0i b\u00f3kina <i><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/lovefraud.com\/book\/index.php\/b\/\" title=\"Love Fraud eftir Donnu Anderson\">Love Fraud\u2014How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan<\/a><\/i> um hj\u00f3naband sitt og si\u00f0blinda svindlarans James Montgomery. \u00deau kynntust \u00ed gegnum t\u00f6lvup\u00f3st. Hann r\u00fa\u00f0i hana inn a\u00f0 skinni \u00ed \u00feessu hj\u00f3nabandi. T\u00edu \u00e1rum eftir skilna\u00f0inn (\u00e1ri\u00f0 2009) komst Donna a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 James var enn a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 stofna til kynna vi\u00f0 konur \u00e1 Netinu.<sup>7<\/sup> \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed full \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 vara konur vi\u00f0, \u00ed samskiptum og kynnum \u00e1 <i>Facebook<\/i> e\u00f0a spjallr\u00e1sum.<\/font><br \/>\n<font size=\"-1\">\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">Si\u00f0blindir hafa reyndar oftast ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 langt\u00edmasamb\u00f6ndum. S\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi yfirgefur f\u00f3rnarlambi\u00f0 \u00feegar hann hefur haft af \u00fev\u00ed n\u00e6gt gagn og g\u00e6\u00f0i, enda er hann spennuf\u00edkill og lei\u00f0ist au\u00f0veldlega. \u00deegar um \u00e1starsamband er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hefur s\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi oftast hafi\u00f0 samband vi\u00f0 n\u00e6sta f\u00f3rnarlamb \u00e1\u00f0ur en hann sl\u00edtur fyrra sambandi. Stundum er hann me\u00f0 \u00ferj\u00e1r \u00ed takinu; Eina sem hann var a\u00f0 skilja vi\u00f0, eina sem er haldi\u00f0 heitri og \u00fe\u00e1 \u00feri\u00f0ju sem hann er a\u00f0 byrja a\u00f0 bera v\u00edurnar \u00ed. F\u00f3rnarlambi\u00f0 sem er sn\u00f6gglega yfirgefi\u00f0 hefur oft veri\u00f0 algerlega grunlaust um a\u00f0 fleiri s\u00e9u \u00ed myndinni.<sup>8<\/sup><\/font><font size=\"-1\">\u00a0\u00a0Og s\u00fa yfirgefna\u00a0fyllist stundum vantr\u00fa, rei\u00f0i, vonleysi, finnst h\u00fan einskis vir\u00f0i og hefur \u00e1 tilfinningunni a\u00f0 s\u00e9r hafi veri\u00f0 hent \u00e1 haugana.<sup>9<\/sup><\/font><br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">N\u00e6sta f\u00e6rsla ver\u00f0ur: <b>\u00cd hj\u00f3nbandi me\u00f0 si\u00f0blindum<\/b><\/font><br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">1 Margar ranns\u00f3knir hafa veri\u00f0 ger\u00f0ar \u00e1 gl\u00e6pam\u00f6nnum \u00ed fangelsum en \u00e1 seinni \u00e1rum hafa menn beint sj\u00f3num s\u00ednum a\u00f0 samf\u00e9laginu almennt og reynt a\u00f0 meta hversu algeng si\u00f0blinda er innan \u00feess. Nefna m\u00e1 ranns\u00f3knina <i>Psychopathic Traits in a Large Community Sample: Links to Violence, Alcohol Use, and Intelligence<\/i>, sem Craig S. Neumann og Robert D. Hare ger\u00f0u og birtist \u00ed J<i>ournal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology<\/i>, 2008, 76(5), s. 893-899. <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hare.org\/references\/NeumannandHareJCCP2008.pdf\" title=\"Ranns\u00f3kn Neumann og Hare\">Greinin er a\u00f0gengileg \u00e1 Vefnum<\/a>. Sko\u00f0a\u00f0 var tilviljanakennt \u00fartak \u00far annarri fj\u00f6lmennari ranns\u00f3kn (MacArthur Violence Risk Study (Monahan et al., 2001), alls 514 manns, af b\u00e1\u00f0um kynjum, jafnt hv\u00edtir sem\u00a0 \u201eBandar\u00edkjamenn af afr\u00edskum uppruna\u201c og notu\u00f0 skimunar\u00fatg\u00e1fan af greiningarlykli Hare (PCL-SV). Ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0urnar voru flestir skoru\u00f0u 3 stig e\u00f0a l\u00e6gra \u00e1 si\u00f0blindukvar\u00f0anum en a\u00f0 1-2% \u00fe\u00e1ttakenda skoru\u00f0u meir en 12 stig, sem gefur til kynna einkenni um si\u00f0blindu. (Ath. a\u00f0 skimunar\u00fatg\u00e1fan\u00a0PCL-SV er annar kvar\u00f0i en PCL-R,\u00a0s\u00e1 fyrrnefndi\u00a0n\u00e6r fr\u00e1 0 &#8211; 24 og \u00feeir sem skora 18 stig og h\u00e6rra eru samb\u00e6rilegir \u00feeim sem skora 30 stig\u00a0og h\u00e6rra \u00e1 PCL-R.)\u00a0Enginn munur m\u00e6ldist eftir kyn\u00fe\u00e6tti. \u00deetta er \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0ur annarra samb\u00e6rilegra ranns\u00f3kna.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">2 Dahl, Alv A. og Aud Dalsegg. 2000,\u00a0s. 13. <i>Sjarm\u00f8r og tyrann. Et innsyn i psykopatenes og ofrenes verden<\/i>. H. Aschehoug &amp; Co (W. Nygaard), Oslo. (\u00deetta er aukin og endurb\u00e6tt \u00fatg\u00e1fa fr\u00e1 1997.)<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">3 \u201eSumir si\u00f0blindir eru t\u00e6kif\u00e6rissinna \u00e1r\u00e1sargj\u00f6rn r\u00e1nd\u00fdr sem er alveg sama hvern \u00feeir misnota. A\u00f0rir eru \u00feolinm\u00f3\u00f0ari og b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir fullkomnu, saklausu f\u00f3rnarlambi sem villist \u00e1 veg \u00feeirra. \u00cd b\u00e1\u00f0um tilvikum hefur s\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi fyrst og fremst \u00ed huga hvernig megi n\u00fdta f\u00f3rnarlambi\u00f0 til fj\u00e1r, valda, kynl\u00edfs e\u00f0a \u00e1hrifa. Sumir si\u00f0blindra hafa gaman af \u00e1skorun me\u00f0an a\u00f0rir einbeita s\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 leggjast \u00e1 f\u00f3lk sem er vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mt fyrir. Si\u00f0blindur getur meti\u00f0 veikar hli\u00f0ar f\u00f3rnarlambsins og mun nota s\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e6r til a\u00f0 draga \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 t\u00e1lar.\u201c <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Psychological_manipulation\" title=\"Si\u00f0blindir og f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb\">Basic manipulative strategy of a psychopath<\/a> \u00ed <i>Psychological manipulation<\/i>, Wikipedia.<\/font><a title=\"4 Hare\" name=\"4 Hare\"><\/a><font size=\"-1\">\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">4 Robert D. Hare. 1999. \u201eFlies in the Web\u201c, 9. kafli \u00ed <i>Without Concience. The Disturbing World of\u00a0 Psychopaths Among Us<\/i>, s. 149. Peter Tranberg segir um \u00feetta: \u201e\u00cd sambandi vi\u00f0 m\u00e1l Peters Lundin \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e9kk \u00e9g \u00e1 tilfinninguna a\u00f0 slatti af kvenkyns\u00a0kunningjum hans\u00a0l\u00e9ti stj\u00f3rnast af M\u00f3\u00f0ur-Theresu \u00fer\u00e1hyggju, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00e6r vildu bjarga \u201eaumingja manninum\u201c fr\u00e1 grimmu fangelsisumhverfinu og kenna honum a\u00f0 gjalda gagnkv\u00e6ma \u00e1st. \u00cd hans augum er \u00feetta markmi\u00f0 merki um veikleika og\u00a0\u00ed grundvallaratri\u00f0um\u00a0\u00f3m\u00f6gulegt a\u00f0 uppfylla.\u201c Tranberg, Peter. <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.kriminalpsykologi.dk\/pt\/upload\/dokumenter\/Psykopati21.pdf\" title=\"Psykopati - en forst\u00e5else af forstyrrelsens natur\"><em>Psykopati &#8211; en forst\u00e5else af forstyrrelsens natur<\/em><\/a>, \u00f3\u00e1rsett, s. 61.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">5 \u201eSi\u00f0blindum sj\u00faklingum h\u00e6ttir til a\u00f0 finna til \u00f6fundar \u00ed gar\u00f0 \u00feeirra sem eru g\u00f3\u00f0ir og s\u00fdna \u00e1r\u00e1sargirni gegn g\u00e6skunni sem \u00feeir skynja til a\u00f0 losna vi\u00f0 \u00feessar \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegu tilfinningar [\u00f6funds\u00fdkina]\u201c segir \u00ed \u201ePsychological Defenses\u201c, <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.health.am\/psy\/more\/personality_characteristics_treatment_prognosis\/\" title=\"Si\u00f0blindir \u00f6funda gla\u00f0a\">Personality Characteristics and Treatment Prognosis<\/a><\/i> \u00e1 vef <i>American Medical Network<\/i> (en textinn fjallar um pers\u00f3nuleikaraskanir af \u00fdmsum toga).<\/font><br \/>\n<font size=\"-1\">\u00a0<\/font><font size=\"-1\">\u201e\u00d6fund er mest \u00e1berandi \u00ed sj\u00faklingi sem hatar g\u00e6skuna sj\u00e1lfa\u201c, segir J. Reid Meloy \u00ed b\u00f3kinni <i>The Psychopathic Mind &#8211; Origins, Dynamics and Treatment<\/i>, 1988, s. 105. Meloy \u00fatsk\u00fdrir \u00feetta \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00f6fundin s\u00e9 ekki me\u00f0vitu\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan \u00f3gni st\u00f3rmennskuhugmyndum hins si\u00f0blinda um eigi\u00f0 \u00e1g\u00e6ti. En hann reynir a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja g\u00f3\u00f0mennskuna, \u00ed ferli sem hefst \u00e1 me\u00f0vitu\u00f0u hugsuninni \u201e\u00c9g ver\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1\u201c og endar \u00e1 me\u00f0vitu\u00f0u hugsuninni \u201e\u00deetta var einskis vir\u00f0i\u201c. Tilvitnanir \u00ed Meloy eru teknar \u00far lokariter\u00f0 danska s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingsins Peter Tranberg, <i><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.kriminalpsykologi.dk\/pt\/upload\/dokumenter\/Psykopati21.pdf\" title=\"Psykopati - en forst\u00e5else af forstyrrelsens natur\">Psykopati &#8211; en forst\u00e5else af forstyrrelsens natur<\/a><\/i>, \u00f3\u00e1rsett, s. 55.\u00a0 <\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">6 Robert D. Hare. 1999. \u201eFlies in the Web\u201c, 9. kafli \u00ed <i>Without Concience. The Disturbing World of\u00a0 Psychopaths Among Us<\/i>, s. 153.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">7 Sj\u00e1 \u201e<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lovefraud.com\/03_trueLovefraudStories\/ConartistJamesMontgomery01.html\" title=\"James Montgomery\">James Montgomery. Using the Internet to meet and defraud women<\/a>\u201c \u00e1 <i>Lovefreud.com<\/i>. <\/font><br \/>\n<font size=\"-1\">Fundi\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 upp s\u00e9rstakt hugtak yfir si\u00f0blinda sem n\u00fdta neti\u00f0 til a\u00f0 komast yfir f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb, anna\u00f0 hvort til a\u00f0 svindla af f\u00f3lki f\u00e9 e\u00f0a komast yfir konur, sem er hugtaki\u00f0 <i>Cyberpath<\/i>.\u00a0 Sj\u00e1 t.d. bloggf\u00e6rsluna \u201e<a href=\"http:\/\/relentlessabundance.wordpress.com\/2008\/11\/18\/the-cyberpath\/\" title=\"Cyberpath\">The successful psychopath<\/a>\u201c og \u201e<a href=\"http:\/\/enpsychopedia.org\/index.php\/Cyberpath\" title=\"cyberpath\">Cyberpath<\/a>\u201c \u00e1 <i>Enpsychopedia.<\/i><b> <\/b><\/font><a title=\"8 Margar \ufffd takinu\" name=\"8 Margar \ufffd takinu\"><\/a><font size=\"-1\">\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">8\u00a0 \u201e<a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Psychological_manipulation\" title=\"si\u00f0blindur n\u00e6r v\u00f6ldum\">Basic manipulative strategy of a psychopath<\/a>\u201c \u00ed <em>Psychological manipulation<\/em>, Wikipedia.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"-1\">9 Hartoonian, Linda S og\u00a0 Liane J. Leedom. \u201e<a href=\"http:\/\/www.aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org\/resources5.html\" title=\"Eftirk\u00f6st f\u00f3rnarlamba si\u00f0blindra\">The aftermath of psychopathy as experienced by romantic partners, family members and other victims<\/a>\u201c \u00ed <i>Aftermath. Surviving Psychopathy<\/i>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n<p><strong><font size=\"2\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><font size=\"2\">\u00a0\u00a0 <\/font><\/strong><br \/>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>31. des. 2011: \u00c9g hef ofi\u00f0 si\u00f0blinduf\u00e6rslurnar og \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00fe\u00e6gilegra a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a efni\u00f0 \u00e1 vef heldur en \u00ed \u00feessu bloggumhverfi. Sl\u00f3\u00f0in er: http:\/\/sidblinda.com \u00de\u00f3famj\u00fak r\u00e1nd\u00fdr sem l\u00e6\u00f0ast: Si\u00f0blinda, III hluti (Finna m\u00e1 a\u00f0rar <span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span> <span class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2011\/01\/14\/fornarlomb-sidblindra-konur\/\" class=\"more-link\"><span>Read More &#8230;<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-310","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=310"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}