{"id":315,"date":"2011-01-30T22:45:01","date_gmt":"2011-01-30T22:45:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harpa.blogg.is\/2011-01-30\/sidblindir-i-kirkjunni\/"},"modified":"2011-01-30T22:45:01","modified_gmt":"2011-01-30T22:45:01","slug":"sidblindir-i-kirkjunni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2011\/01\/30\/sidblindir-i-kirkjunni\/","title":{"rendered":"Si\u00f0blindir \u00ed kirkjunni"},"content":{"rendered":"

31. des. 2011: \u00c9g hef ofi\u00f0 si\u00f0blinduf\u00e6rslurnar og \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00fe\u00e6gilegra a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a efni\u00f0 \u00e1 vef heldur en \u00ed \u00feessu bloggumhverfi. Sl\u00f3\u00f0in er:<\/p>\n

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<\/font>\u00de\u00f3famj\u00fak r\u00e1nd\u00fdr sem l\u00e6\u00f0ast: Si\u00f0blinda, IV hluti<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

(Finna m\u00e1 a\u00f0rar f\u00e6rslur um si\u00f0blindu \u00ed efnisflokknum Si\u00f0blinda<\/em>,\u00a0sj\u00e1 Flokka h\u00e9r til h\u00e6gri.)<\/font>\u00a0<\/font>
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A\u00f0 hafa si\u00f0blindan prest e\u00f0a lei\u00f0toga \u00ed kirkjunni er eins og a\u00f0 afhenda si\u00f0blindum \u00f3\u00fatfyllta \u00e1v\u00edsun<\/font><\/i>1<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/font>
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\nUmfj\u00f6llun \u00e1 Nor\u00f0url\u00f6ndunum<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c1 Nor\u00f0url\u00f6ndunum hafa komi\u00f0 \u00fat a.m.k. \u00ferj\u00e1r b\u00e6kur sem fjalla um si\u00f0blindu innan kirkjunnar. Allar hafa \u00fe\u00e6r vaki\u00f0 mikla athygli en eru \u00fe\u00f3 \u00f3finnanlegar \u00ed \u00edslenskum b\u00f3kas\u00f6fnum, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hafi veri\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fdddar. \u00c9g hef \u00feessar b\u00e6kur ekki undir h\u00f6ndum og ver\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sty\u00f0jast vi\u00f0 tilvitnanir \u00e1 vefs\u00ed\u00f0um og greinar um \u00fe\u00e6r. M\u00e9r finnst mj\u00f6g einkennilegt hve hlj\u00f3tt hefur veri\u00f0 um b\u00e6kurnar h\u00e9r \u00e1 landi.<\/font>
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*\u00c1ri\u00f0 1989 kom \u00fat norska b\u00f3kin Maktmennesket i menigheten <\/i><\/b>eftir Edin L\u00f8v\u00e5s<\/b>. H\u00f6fundurinn er vel\u00feekktur pr\u00e9dikari \u00ed Noregi og starfandi prestur \u00ed Norska heimatr\u00fabo\u00f0inu (Misjonsforbundet) \u00ed\u00a0\"Edin\u00e1ratugi. \u00deetta eru nokkurs konar reikningsskil \u00e1 \u00e1g\u00e6tum m\u00f6guleikum d\u00e6miger\u00f0ra si\u00f0blindra\u00a0 til \u201etort\u00edmandi tj\u00e1ningar\u201c \u00ed venjulegum kristnum s\u00f6fnu\u00f0um. Kristnir s\u00f6fnu\u00f0ir eru \u201evettvangur \u00fear sem svona f\u00f3lk \u00e1 au\u00f0veldast me\u00f0 a\u00f0 beita valdi s\u00ednu\u201c, segir hann. \u201eEftir 40 \u00e1r sem s\u00e1lusorgari er \u00e9g skelfingu lostinn\u00a0 yfir \u00feeirri miklu \u00fej\u00e1ningu sem si\u00f0blindir valda kristnum einstaklingum, h\u00f3pum og s\u00f6fnu\u00f0um. \u00c9g er l\u00edka skelka\u00f0ur yfir hve l\u00edti\u00f0 b\u00e6\u00f0i kristnir og fagf\u00f3lk \u00e1 \u00feessu svi\u00f0i talar hreint og vafningalaust um \u00feetta. … \u00c9g tel a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 risast\u00f3rt vandam\u00e1l sem s\u00f3pa\u00f0 er undir teppi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er eins og dreginn s\u00e9 allur m\u00e1ttur \u00far forystum\u00f6nnum [kirkjunnar]. Stundum velti \u00e9g fyrir m\u00e9r hvort hir\u00f0arnir s\u00e9u ekki jafn hr\u00e6ddir og hj\u00f6r\u00f0in og s\u00e9 s\u00fa raunin \u00e1saka \u00e9g engan. \u00dev\u00ed ekkert (fyrir utan sj\u00e1lfan dj\u00f6fulinn) er eins \u00f3gnvekjandi og \u00feegar \u00feessir \u201esk\u00e6\u00f0u vargar\u201c \u00fer\u00f6ngva s\u00e9r inn \u00e1 ykkur (sbr. Postulas\u00f6guna 20:29).\u201c<\/font>2<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

\u201eSi\u00f0blindir eru menn sem hafa l\u00edfssko\u00f0un, mannskilning og vi\u00f0ho<\/font>rf sem lei\u00f0ir til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feeir eru s\u00edfellt \u00e1 h\u00f6ttunum eftir valdi. \u00deeir hafa \u00f3endanlega \u00fe\u00f6rf til a\u00f0 st\u00fdra hj\u00f6rtum og hugsunum annarra. Kristnir s\u00f6fnu\u00f0ur er vettvangur \u00fear sem \u00feeim veitist l\u00e9tt a\u00f0 hrinda \u00feessu valdi \u00ed framkv\u00e6md. Si\u00f0blindir eru venjulega kl\u00e1rir og heillandi og \u00feeir beita \u00f6llum s\u00ednum \u00e1hrifum og orku \u00ed valdabar\u00e1ttuna.\u201c<\/font>3<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0urnar fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hve s\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi n\u00e6r sterkum t\u00f6kum innan kirkjunnar eru einkum \u00ferj\u00e1r, skv. L\u00f8v\u00e5s. \u00cd fyrsta lagi geti s\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi sett fram kr\u00f6fur um k\u00e6rleika, au\u00f0m\u00fdkt, \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i og umbur\u00f0arlyndi. Kristi\u00f0 f\u00f3lk er ali\u00f0 upp \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fyrirgefa og \u00feola \u00fej\u00e1ningu. Pr\u00e9dikarar og prestar hafa hamra\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 k\u00e6rleikurinn, \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0in og umbur\u00f0arlyndi\u00f0 s\u00e9 takmarkalaust, \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 misnota f\u00f3lk \u00ed nafni k\u00e6rleika og \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i; \u00d6nnur sk\u00fdring er s\u00fa a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hefur tami\u00f0 s\u00e9r \u00ed of miklum m\u00e6li a\u00f0 vera \u00f3virkir \u00e1heyrendur \u00ed kirkjum. Tj\u00e1ningin kemur svo til eing\u00f6ngu \u00far k\u00f3rdyrum, fr\u00e1 altarinu og \u00far pr\u00e9dikunarst\u00f3lnum. Flestir sam\u00feykkja athugasemdalaust \u00fea\u00f0 sem pr\u00e9dikarinn bo\u00f0ar. \u00deeir setja sig \u00ed spor \u201esau\u00f0anna sem fylgja hir\u00f0inum\u201c og \u00ed \u00feessu tilviki \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki vi\u00f0 Jes\u00fas, heldur prestinn e\u00f0a skilning \u00feeirra. Skv. L\u00f8v\u00e5s eru flestir \u00feannig uppaldir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er ofar \u00feeirra skilningi a\u00f0 einhver skuli \u201epr\u00e9dika Krist af eigingirni og ekki af hreinum hug\u201c (Filipp\u00edbr\u00e9fi\u00f0 1:17).\u00a0 Enn ein sk\u00fdringin \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hve au\u00f0velt er fyrir si\u00f0blinda a\u00f0 n\u00e1 v\u00f6ldum \u00ed kristnum samf\u00e9l\u00f6gum er kannski a\u00f0 \u00feeir leita oft \u00ed Bibl\u00eduna \u00ed r\u00f6ksemdaf\u00e6rslu sinni. \u00deeir geta v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00ed ritningarsta\u00f0i \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0\u00a0 \u201eHl\u00fd\u00f0i\u00f0 lei\u00f0togum ykkar og veri\u00f0 \u00feeim eftirl\u00e1t.\u201c (Hebreabr\u00e9fi\u00f0 13:17).<\/font>4<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

L\u00f8v\u00e5s telur a\u00f0 s\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi b\u00fai s\u00e9r oft til einfalt gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ikerfi me\u00f0 aragr\u00faa af \u00f3sveigjanlegum reglum. \u201e\u00dev\u00ed ney\u00f0ir hann svo upp \u00e1 f\u00f3lk og krefst \u00f3skora\u00f0rar hl\u00fd\u00f0ni undir \u00fev\u00ed yfirskini a\u00f0 hann haldi tr\u00fana vi\u00f0 b\u00f3kstafinn, r\u00e9tta gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i og r\u00e9tt l\u00f6gm\u00e1l. Af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 valdinu stafar af honum veldur hann \u00f3tta og hann br\u00fdtur andst\u00f6\u00f0u \u00e1 bak aftur. \u00deeim sem hann n\u00e6r \u00e1 vald sitt finnst a\u00f0 m\u00f3tm\u00e6li jafngildi \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e9u \u00e1 m\u00f3ti sj\u00e1lfum Gu\u00f0i alm\u00e1ttugum.\u201c<\/font>5<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

Kaflafyrirsagnir \u00ed b\u00f3kinni l\u00fdsa valdsm\u00f6nnum innan kirkjunnar (maktmennesket i menigheten): \u00deeir ver\u00f0a a\u00f0 vera mi\u00f0punktur athyglinnar;\u00a0 \u00deeir eru st\u00f6\u00f0ugt til \u00ed slaginn;\u00a0 Sektarkenndin er helsta vopn \u00feeirra (\u00feeir l\u00e1ta a\u00f0ra f\u00e1 samviskubit); \u00deeir brj\u00f3ta ni\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfs\u00e1lit (annarra); \u00deeir skilja ekki \u00fearfir annarra; \u00deeir hafa mikla \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir \u00f6rvun. (Innst inni lei\u00f0ist \u00feeim. \u00deeir elska dramat\u00edk og a\u00f0 vera \u00ed mi\u00f0ju hringi\u00f0unnar.); \u00deeir hafa \u00f3raunh\u00e6far v\u00e6ntingar; \u00deeir blekkja flesta;\u00a0 \u00deeim hugnast vel stigskipt valdakerfi; \u00deeir r\u00e1\u00f0ast \u00e1 minni m\u00e1ttar.<\/font>6<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

Si\u00f0blindir munu ekki breytast. \u201eLausnin er sem sagt ekki s\u00fa a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir neins konar breytingu e\u00f0a \u00feess a\u00f0 valdsmennirnir sk\u00e1ni. Hinn \u00feekkti norski s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur Tollak B Sirnes segir: \u201eFlestar ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 \u00e1rangri me\u00f0fer\u00f0a si\u00f0blindra s\u00fdna a\u00f0 l\u00edkur \u00e1 bata eru litlar.\u201c<\/font>7<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

L\u00f8v\u00e5s telur a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 engin \u00f6nnur lei\u00f0 f\u00e6r en a\u00f0 rj\u00fafa samskipti vi\u00f0 sl\u00edkan valdsmann. Hinn kosturinn er a\u00f0 leggjast \u00ed mikil br\u00e9faskipti, r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0ur e\u00f0a samningager\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 og vir\u00f0ist L\u00f8v\u00e5s ekki telja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skili \u00e1rangri.\u00a0 Ef \u00e1 a\u00f0 reka \u00fe\u00e1, segir hann,\u00a0 ver\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 gerast \u00e1 \u00f3v\u00e9fengjanlegan l\u00f6glegan h\u00e1tt – allt anna\u00f0 er gagnslaust.<\/font><\/p>\n

Hlutverk okkar hinna \u00e6tti fyrst og fremst a\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 vernda minni m\u00e1ttar og ekki a\u00f0 gefa \u00feeim sterka nein t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri. \u00dev\u00ed meir sem vi\u00f0 hr\u00e6\u00f0umst a\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0va valdsmann, \u00fev\u00ed minna tillit s\u00fdnum vi\u00f0 \u00feeim sem valdma\u00f0urinn t\u00e6tir \u00ed sig. Og \u00feeim l\u00ed\u00f0ur illa. \u00deeirra hlutskipti er a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00e1st \u00ed hlj\u00f3\u00f0i \u00fev\u00ed ef \u00feeir vekja m\u00e1ls \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sem er erfitt mun \u00feeim l\u00ed\u00f0a enn verr. \u00deeir geta au\u00f0vita\u00f0 gert kollega s\u00edna a\u00f0 tr\u00fana\u00f0arm\u00f6nnum og fengi\u00f0 stu\u00f0ning og skilning en f\u00e1ir kollegar \u00feora a\u00f0 halda opinsk\u00e1tt me\u00f0 \u00feeim \u00feegar nau\u00f0syn ber til. F\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mbin str\u00ed\u00f0a oft vi\u00f0 mikla tilfinninga\u00f6r\u00f0ugleika, svefnleysi og l\u00edkamlega kvilla. Enn verra er a\u00f0 \u00feau byrja oft a\u00f0 skilgreina sig eins og valdsma\u00f0urinn l\u00edtur \u00e1 \u00feau, nefnilega veikge\u00f0ja, m\u00f3\u00f0ursj\u00fak, \u00f3gu\u00f0leg, sj\u00e1lfselsk o.\u00fe.h.<\/font>8<\/font><\/sup><\/b>
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*Presturinn Raimo M\u00e4kel\u00e4<\/b>, framkv\u00e6mdarstj\u00f3ri Finnsku bibl\u00edustofnunarinnar (Finska Bibelinstitutet \/ Sumoen Raamattuopisto), gaf 1997 \u00fat \u00f6rstutta b\u00f3k (einungis 78 s\u00ed\u00f0ur), Naamiona terve miele<\/i>,\u00a0\"Raimo<\/i><\/b>sem \u00e1 d\u00f6nsku heitir Magtmisbrug i menigheden<\/i>, \u00e1 norsku Psykopatenes makt<\/i>: hvordan du kan bli fri<\/i> en hefur hvorki veri\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fddd \u00e1 s\u00e6nsku n\u00e9 \u00edslensku. B\u00f3kin hefur veri\u00f0 endurprentu\u00f0 \u00e1tta sinnum og selst \u00ed yfir 16.000 eint\u00f6kum. H\u00fan hefur komi\u00f0 \u00fat \u00ed \u00de\u00fdskalandi, Noregi og Danm\u00f6rku og \u00e1ri\u00f0 2005 var veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0a hana \u00e1 r\u00fassnesku, ensku og k\u00ednversku.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/font>Raimo M\u00e4kel\u00e4 reynir ekki a\u00f0 draga fj\u00f6\u00f0ur yfir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1l sem tengjast sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkunarpers\u00f3nuleikar\u00f6skun (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) s\u00e9 einnig a\u00f0 finna innan kirkjunnar – og b\u00e6tir vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugtakanotkun s\u00e9 d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 ruglingsleg enda talar hann alltaf um si\u00f0blindu (psykopati) s\u00ed\u00f0ar \u00ed vi\u00f0talinu, sem \u00e9g vitna \u00ed. Grunn\u00fe\u00e1tturinn \u00ed si\u00f0blindu er valdaf\u00edkn. Si\u00f0blindir geta veri\u00f0 kappsamir og metna\u00f0argjarnir en \u00feegar allt kemur til alls er sj\u00e1lf valdabar\u00e1ttan \u00feeim mikilv\u00e6gust; a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0a yfir hverri manneskjunni af annarri e\u00f0a hreppa hverja st\u00f6\u00f0una eftir a\u00f0ra. B\u00e6\u00f0i l\u00fatherska \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0kirkjan og fr\u00edkirkjur h\u00f6f\u00f0a til svona f\u00f3lks og oft kemst \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed stj\u00f3rnunarst\u00f6\u00f0ur.<\/font><\/p>\n

M\u00f6rg \u00e1r, jafnvel fast a\u00f0 \u00e1ratug, tekur a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 svona manni. Gr\u00f3ft me\u00f0altal er kannski tvo \u00e1r, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e6ttu viss merki a\u00f0 vera farin a\u00f0 sj\u00e1st. Oft er vi\u00f0komandi \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1 mi\u00f0jum aldri.<\/font><\/p>\n

\"Raimo\u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur me\u00f0 si\u00f0blindueinkenni geti starfa\u00f0 \u00f3\u00e1reittur \u00ed kristnu samf\u00e9lagi um langt skei\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00e9r s\u00ednar sk\u00fdringar. Kirkjustarfi fylgir myndugleiki sem er frj\u00f3r jar\u00f0vegur fyrir \u00feann sem \u00feyrstir \u00ed v\u00f6ld. Hann getur l\u00e6rt r\u00e9tta tungutaki\u00f0, kennt um tr\u00fa og gu\u00f0spj\u00f6llin af sannri tr\u00fafestu og veri\u00f0 strangur. \u00dea\u00f0 tekur t\u00edma a\u00f0 s\u00edast inn a\u00f0 hann telur sig alls ekki sj\u00e1lfan bundinn af \u00feeim reglum sem hann pr\u00e9dikar. Hann er er \u00f3sv\u00edfinn en ekki svo \u00f3sv\u00edfinn a\u00f0 manni bl\u00f6skri e\u00f0a tr\u00fai varla s\u00ednum eigin eyrum og augum. Kristnar hugsj\u00f3nir fela \u00ed s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vera g\u00f3\u00f0ur, a\u00f0 halda fri\u00f0inn og hl\u00fd\u00f0a. Enginn b\u00fdst vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kristinn lei\u00f0togi komi illa fram vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra.<\/font><\/p>\n

Hinn si\u00f0blindi deilir f\u00f3lki \u00ed \u00ferj\u00e1 h\u00f3pa. E\u00f0lis\u00e1v\u00edsunin segir honum hverjir standa me\u00f0 honum e\u00f0a hverja hann getur munstra\u00f0 \u00ed sitt li\u00f0. Allt sn\u00fdst um hann sj\u00e1lfan. Fyrsti h\u00f3purinn er f\u00f3lk sem hann getur r\u00e1\u00f0skast me\u00f0 og heilla\u00f0, f\u00f3lk sem d\u00e1ist endalaust a\u00f0 honum og ver\u00f0ur hir\u00f0 \u00ed kringum hann. Hann fer um \u00feetta f\u00f3lk silkih\u00f6nskum og \u00feetta er li\u00f0i\u00f0 sem segir: \u201eHann g\u00e6ti aldrei gert neitt af s\u00e9r!\u201c\u201eVi\u00f0 tr\u00faum aldrei neinu illu upp \u00e1 hann!\u201c N\u00e6sti h\u00f3pur er f\u00f3lk sem s\u00e9r \u00ed gegnum \u00feann si\u00f0blinda. Hann getur ekki r\u00e1\u00f0skast me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 og hann \u00feolir ekki \u00feetta f\u00f3lk. \u00deri\u00f0ji h\u00f3purinn eru f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mbin, \u00feau sem hann mun tra\u00f0ka \u00e1. \u00deetta eru oftast g\u00f3\u00f0ar manneskjur sem vilja halda fri\u00f0inn. Hann er stundum almennilegur vi\u00f0 \u00feetta f\u00f3lk en getur augnabliki s\u00ed\u00f0ar umhverfst \u00ed dj\u00f6ful \u00ed mannsmynd.<\/font><\/p>\n

Reynsla f\u00f3lks \u00ed s\u00f6fnu\u00f0inum og \u00e1lit manna ver\u00f0ur \u00fev\u00ed mj\u00f6g m\u00f3tsagnakennt. \u00deess vegna er l\u00edti\u00f0 gagn af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 utana\u00f0komandi r\u00e1\u00f0gjafa \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem hann festir h\u00f6nd \u00e1 er a\u00f0 \u00fearna s\u00e9u skiptar sko\u00f0anir.<\/font><\/p>\n

Vegna sterkrar r\u00e1\u00f0ningarfestu er erfitt a\u00f0 losa sig einfaldlega vi\u00f0 hinn si\u00f0blinda, sama hversu langt hann gengur. \u00dear er sjaldan beinl\u00ednis um l\u00f6gbrot a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a, \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 beita valdn\u00ed\u00f0slu \u00e1 svo \u00f3tal a\u00f0ra vegu. En \u00f3hei\u00f0arleikinn og ofbeldisfull heg\u00f0un eru au\u00f0sj\u00e1anleg.<\/font><\/p>\n

A\u00f0 sumu leyti er si\u00f0blindum vissulega vorkunn. Hann er aumkunarver\u00f0ur. Hann s\u00e9r aldrei s\u00f6k hj\u00e1 sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r heldur telur alla a\u00f0ra breyta rangt. Hann skortir samhyg\u00f0 og samvisku. Hann i\u00f0rast einskis. Samt finnst M\u00e4kel\u00e4 \u00f3\u00fearft a\u00f0 vorkenna si\u00f0blindum heldur eigi a\u00f0 hugsa um f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb \u00feeirra. \u00c1standi\u00f0 mun aldrei sk\u00e1na. Ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 a\u00f0 berjast \u00e1 m\u00f3ti og ekki l\u00e1ta tra\u00f0ka \u00e1 s\u00e9r en gangi \u00fea\u00f0 ekki er um a\u00f0 gera a\u00f0 segja upp starfi og fara, \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki vesalmennska heldur nau\u00f0syn til a\u00f0 lifa af. Hann segir:\u201e… sem s\u00e1lusorgari get \u00e9g aldrei hvatt neinn til a\u00f0 vera um kyrrt \u00ed sl\u00edkri \u00fej\u00e1ningu og helv\u00edti [sem samvistir vi\u00f0 si\u00f0blindan geta veri\u00f0]…. Fl\u00fd\u00f0u!\u201c<\/font>9<\/font><\/sup><\/b>
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*\u00c1ri\u00f0 2007 kom \u00fat \u00ed Danm\u00f6rku b\u00f3kin Forkl\u00e6dt.\u00a0 P\u00e6ne psykopater og deres ofre<\/i><\/b> eftir Irene R\u00f8nn Lind<\/b>. H\u00fan er mennta\u00f0ur kennari, fj\u00f6lskyldur\u00e1\u00f0gjafi og hefur loki\u00f0 cand.p\u00e6d.psyk.aut. gr\u00e1\u00f0u.\u00a0\"IreneLokaritger\u00f0 hennar, 2001, fjalla\u00f0i einmitt um \u201ep\u00e6ne psykopater\u201c. Irene er starfandi s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur og hefur seti\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00f3knarnefnd \u00e1 Sj\u00e1landi. B\u00f3k hennar vir\u00f0ist hafa vaki\u00f0 mikla athygli. Hugtaki\u00f0 \u201ep\u00e6ne psykopater\u201c hef \u00e9g \u00e1\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00fdtt sem \u201esnotrir si\u00f0blindir\u201c en m\u00e6tti l\u00edka notast vi\u00f0 \u201ehuggulegir si\u00f0blindir\u201c (\u00e1 ensku eru notu\u00f0 \u201esuccessful psychopath\u201c, \u201esubclinical psychopath\u201c\u00a0o.fl. or\u00f0 yfir \u00feetta sama, \u00fe.e.a.s. si\u00f0blindan sem tekst a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed samf\u00e9laginu og halda sig utan fangelsism\u00faranna).<\/font><\/p>\n

Irene R\u00f8nn Lind heldur \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 fyrirgefning og opnar dyr kirkjunnar geri hana a\u00f0 hreinasta g\u00f3senlandi fyrir si\u00f0blinda. H\u00fan segir: \u201eHin j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0u gildi sem r\u00edkja \u00ed kirkjunni, s.s. fyrirgefning og n\u00e1ungak\u00e6rleikur, gera si\u00f0blindum au\u00f0velt fyrir \u00ed innan kirkjunnar. Hin j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0u gildi virka n\u00e1nast eins og \u00f3\u00fatfyllt \u00e1v\u00edsun fyrir hinn si\u00f0blinda og a\u00f0fer\u00f0ir hans. \u00deetta \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 hann f\u00e6r oft a\u00f0 valsa \u00f3\u00e1reittur \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r uns f\u00f3lk f\u00e6r endanlega n\u00f3g.<\/font>
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\nHagur si\u00f0blindra er g\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00ed kirkjusamf\u00e9laginu og \u00fea\u00f0 skapar vandam\u00e1l \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0farir hins si\u00f0blinda f\u00e1 auki\u00f0 v\u00e6gi \u00ed hinu tr\u00far\u00e6na. \u00deetta gerir a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00ed kirkjunni \u00f3l\u00edkar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00e1 venjulegum vinnusta\u00f0. \u00deegar ma\u00f0ur n\u00e6r tangarhaldi \u00e1 sambandi f\u00f3lks vi\u00f0 gu\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0last ma\u00f0ur r\u00edkulegt vald.<\/font>
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\nS\u00e1 si\u00f0blindi mun hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 s\u00f6fnu\u00f0inn. N\u00e6rvera hans mun ska\u00f0a tr\u00fana\u00f0inn, umhyggjuna og tiltr\u00fana. F\u00f3lki reynist erfitt a\u00f0 s\u00fdna tr\u00fana\u00f0artraust \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 hr\u00e6\u00f0ist a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsir ver\u00f0i nota\u00f0 gegn \u00fev\u00ed. Hinn si\u00f0blindi mun alltaf sitja um a\u00f0 sn\u00faa vandam\u00e1lum safna\u00f0arins gegn safna\u00f0arf\u00f3lkinu sj\u00e1lfu.\u201c<\/font>10<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

H\u00fan vitnar \u00ed sko\u00f0un danskra vinnusta\u00f0as\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0inga sem hafa geti\u00f0 s\u00e9r til a\u00f0 u.\u00fe.b. 10% stj\u00f3rnenda \u00ed atvinnul\u00edfinu s\u00e9u umtalsvert si\u00f0blindir. Irene R\u00f8nn Lind telur a\u00f0 hlutfalli\u00f0 s\u00e9 svipa\u00f0 innan d\u00f6nsku kirkjunnar en tekur fram a\u00f0 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 s\u00e9 um \u00e1giskun a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. <\/font>11<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c1 s\u00f3knarnefndarfundum s\u00fdnir hinn si\u00f0blindi \u00f3gnandi framkomu og heitir f\u00f3lki gl\u00f6tun. Hann \u00feolir ekki gagnr\u00fdni, finnur ekki til samviskubits og allt sem hann gerir er einungis \u00ed eigin \u00fe\u00e1gu.<\/font>12<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

Irene R\u00f8nn Lind hefur s\u00fdnt tengsl hins si\u00f0blinda vi\u00f0 s\u00f6fnu\u00f0inn<\/b> \u00ed svona t\u00f6flu:<\/font><\/p>\n

\"si\u00f0blindur<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/font>Og h\u00fan l\u00fdsir \u00fev\u00ed svona hvernig heg\u00f0un hins si\u00f0blinda g\u00e6ti skarast vi\u00f0 verkefni prests<\/b>:<\/font><\/p>\n

\"Si\u00f0blindur13<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

D\u00e6mi um b\u00e1gt \u00e1stand \u00ed kirkjunni<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00cd inngangi b\u00f3kar sinnar rekur Irene R\u00f8nn Lind nokkur d\u00e6mi \u00far d\u00f6nskum fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum sem s\u00fdna ey\u00f0ileggjandi atferli einstaklinga. H\u00fan tekur fram a\u00f0 ekki s\u00e9 h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 fullyr\u00f0a a\u00f0 einstaklingarnir sem vi\u00f0 s\u00f6gu koma s\u00e9u si\u00f0blindir en segir a\u00f0 \u00feessi d\u00e6mi s\u00fdni hvernig si\u00f0blindur g\u00e6ti<\/i> haga\u00f0 s\u00e9r.<\/font><\/p>\n

D\u00e6mi VII er um fr\u00e9tt sem birtist \u00e1 fors\u00ed\u00f0u Kristilegs dagbla\u00f0s<\/i> \u00ed 4. apr\u00edl 2001. Fyrirs\u00f6gnin var \u201eKirkjur Kaupmannahafnar k\u00e6r\u00f0ar fyrir einelti\u201c. \u00cd tveimur greinum og \u00ed lei\u00f0ara bla\u00f0sins var l\u00fdst einelti og \u00e1reitni \u00ed 8 kirkjum \u00fear \u00ed borg sem tilkynnnt haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 til Vinnuverndar (Arbejdstilsynet). \u00cd lei\u00f0aranum var v\u00edsa\u00f0 til kirkjur\u00e1\u00f0stefnu og sta\u00f0h\u00e6ft a\u00f0 \u00ed fj\u00f3r\u00f0u hverju s\u00f3knarkirkju \u00ed Danm\u00f6rku r\u00edkti \u00f3fri\u00f0ur. Irene hringdi samd\u00e6gurs \u00ed bla\u00f0amanninn sem skrifa\u00f0i greinarnar og komst a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim 8 tilvikum \u00fear sem haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 tilkynnt um einelti og \u00e1reiti m\u00e1tti rekja helminginn til s\u00f6mu manneskjunnar.<\/font>14<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

Af flokkadr\u00e1ttum og eineltism\u00e1lum \u00ed kirkjum Kaupmannahafnar voru \u00feau alvarlegustu \u00ed Stef\u00e1nskirkjunni. \u00dear loga\u00f0i allt \u00ed illdeilum: Tveimur prestum (Anne Braad og Ivar Larsen) l\u00edka\u00f0i engan veginn vi\u00f0 \u00feri\u00f0ja prestinn (Lull Ross); k\u00f3rinn haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 rekinn munnlega en starfa\u00f0i samt \u00e1fram; s\u00f3knarnefndin var klofin \u00ed afst\u00f6\u00f0u sinni og organistinn var kominn \u00ed langt veikindaleyfi vegna \u00e1fallastreitu sem stafa\u00f0i einkum af einelti fyrstnefndu prestanna tveggja. Organistinn, Ole Olesen, haf\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e1 starfa\u00f0 \u00ed Stef\u00e1nskirkjunni \u00ed t\u00e6p 30 \u00e1r. \u00dea\u00f0 var hann sem k\u00e6r\u00f0i til Vinnuverndar.<\/font><\/p>\n

Presturinn sem \u00e1tti undir h\u00f6gg a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja haf\u00f0i skrifa\u00f0 Kirkjum\u00e1lar\u00e1\u00f0uneytinu br\u00e9f og be\u00f0i\u00f0 um \u00fattekt \u00e1 vinnuumhverfinu \u00ed kirkjunni. H\u00fan haf\u00f0i l\u00edka\u00f0 skrifa\u00f0 s\u00f3knarnefndinni og tilkynnt a\u00f0 h\u00fan yr\u00f0i fyrir einelti. Presturinn Ivar Larsen, sem vir\u00f0ist a\u00f0allega hafa veri\u00f0 stu\u00f0ningsma\u00f0ur sr. Anne Braad, haf\u00f0i \u00e1 hinn b\u00f3ginn m\u00e6tt \u00e1 fund s\u00f3knarnefndar til a\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsa hana um hver v\u00e6ru fyrstu skrefin til a\u00f0 reka prest vegna samstarfs\u00f6r\u00f0ugleika. K\u00f3rinn bei\u00f0 eftir formlegum uppsagnarbr\u00e9fum. Um st\u00f6\u00f0u k\u00f3rsins sag\u00f0i Anne Braad: \u201e\u00c9g veit ekkert um lagagreinar og lagalega framkv\u00e6md. En vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 vinna \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 reka k\u00f3rinn \u00ed heilt \u00e1r og enn hefur ekki or\u00f0i\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed. … Sennilega er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki h\u00e6gt.\u201c A\u00f0spur\u00f0 hvort ekki v\u00e6ri stu\u00f0la\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e9legu vinnuumhverfi me\u00f0 a\u00f0 reka f\u00f3lk og l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 svo halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 vinna, svara\u00f0i h\u00fan: \u201eMa\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 reyna. Svo getur ma\u00f0ur vona\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feau h\u00e6tti sj\u00e1lf.\u201c Fyrrum k\u00f3rme\u00f0limur sag\u00f0i \u00ed uppsagnarbr\u00e9fi s\u00ednu, sem sent var til allrar s\u00f3knarnefndarinnar, pr\u00f3fasts og biskups: \u201eM\u00e9r var\u00f0 flj\u00f3tlega lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 kirkjan og starfsm\u00f6nnum hennar er st\u00fdrt af kl\u00edku, h\u00f3pi manna sem hafa \u00fevinga\u00f0 sitt \u00ed gegn me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feegja yfir e\u00f0a gefa rangar uppl\u00fdsingar, beita \u00e1s\u00f6kunum og \u00f3gnandi framkomu. \u00de\u00e6r \u00e1kvar\u00f0anirnar sem \u00fer\u00fdst var \u00ed gegn hafa \u00e1 \u00fdmsan m\u00e1ta ekki veri\u00f0 til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta daglegt starf \u00ed kirkjunni.\u201c<\/font>15<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Si\u00f0blindurFimm \u00e1rum s\u00ed\u00f0ar voru deilum\u00e1lin \u00ed Stef\u00e1nskirkjunni enn \u00f3leyst. Lull Ross var h\u00e6tt og einungis tveir prestar starfandi vi\u00f0 kirkjuna, \u00feau Anne Braad og Ivar Larsen. Vinnueftirliti\u00f0 taldi sig ekkert geta gert \u00fev\u00ed einelti og \u00e1reiti f\u00e9lli utan verksvi\u00f0 \u00feess. Svona m\u00e1l yr\u00f0u m\u00e1lsa\u00f0ilar a\u00f0 leysa sj\u00e1lfir. Biskup Kaupmannahafnar vildi ekki tj\u00e1 sig um m\u00e1li\u00f0, sag\u00f0i einungis: \u201e\u00deetta eru n\u00fdjar fr\u00e9ttir fyrir mig. \u00c9g hef hvorki heyrt um k\u00e6rurnar fr\u00e1 kirkjunum n\u00e9 fr\u00e1 Vinnueftirlitinu. En \u00e9g mun au\u00f0vita\u00f0 sko\u00f0a\u00a0 m\u00e1li\u00f0 me\u00f0 opnum huga.\u201c Organistinn haf\u00f0i b\u00fdsna l\u00edti\u00f0 geta\u00f0 unni\u00f0 og a\u00f0allega veri\u00f0 \u00ed veikindaleyfi. \u00dea\u00f0 sem gerst haf\u00f0i \u00ed m\u00e1lum hans til \u00feessa: Hann reyndi n\u00e1 s\u00e1ttafundi me\u00f0 prestum kirkjunnar en s\u00f3knarnefndin svara\u00f0i ekki erindi hans (2001); S\u00f3knarnefndin reyndi a\u00f0 reka organistann \u00fev\u00ed hann g\u00e6ti ekki sinnt starfinu vegna veikinda en organistinn leita\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e1 til umbo\u00f0smanns (\u201es\u00e6tteombudsmand\u201c sem samsvarar umbo\u00f0smanni Al\u00feingis h\u00e9r \u00e1 landi) (2002); Haldinn var fundur me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1verandi kirkjum\u00e1lar\u00e1\u00f0herra sem kraf\u00f0ist \u00feess a\u00f0 deilua\u00f0ilar fyndu lausn \u00e1 m\u00e1linu (2005); Formlegar s\u00e1ttaumleitanir, a\u00f0 kr\u00f6fu umbo\u00f0smanns,\u00a0 milli presta og organista f\u00f3ru \u00fat um \u00fe\u00fafur (2005); Organistinn kom til starfa \u00ed 6 vikur en gafst upp (sumari\u00f0 2005); S\u00f3knarnefndin vinnur \u00ed a\u00f0 losna vi\u00f0 organistann me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 endurskipuleggja st\u00f6\u00f0u organista (sumari\u00f0 2006).<\/font><\/p>\n

S\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur \u00ed stj\u00f3rnun sag\u00f0i um \u00feessi m\u00e1l: S\u00e1ttaumleitanir geta oft leyst deilur en einungis ef b\u00e1\u00f0ir a\u00f0ilar vilja leysa \u00fe\u00e6r, annars gerist ekkert. \u00cd venjulegu vinnuumhverfi hef\u00f0i \u00f3s\u00e6tti\u00f0 aldrei n\u00e1\u00f0 svona langt, \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00f6rugglega b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 reka annan a\u00f0ilann.<\/font>16<\/font><\/sup><\/b><\/p>\n

Sennilega er \u00fea\u00f0 tilviljun a\u00f0 d\u00e6mi\u00f0 um si\u00f0blindan \u00ed kirkjunni \u00ed norsku b\u00f3kinni Sjarm\u00f8r og tyrann. Et innsyn i psykopatenes og ofrenes verden <\/i>er l\u00edka um samskipti prests og organista. \u00deetta er s\u00f6nn saga og segir fr\u00e1 konu, organistanum Ragnhildi, sem prestur kominn \u00e1 efri \u00e1r k\u00faga\u00f0i til a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta st\u00f6rfum. Presturinn kom fyrir sem bl\u00ed\u00f0ur og ind\u00e6ll ma\u00f0ur, sag\u00f0i brandara og virtist frj\u00e1lslyndur af presti a\u00f0 vera. Hann haf\u00f0i l\u00edka einl\u00e6gan \u00e1huga \u00e1 s\u00f6ng og m\u00e1tti heyra sterka raust hans yfirgn\u00e6fa a\u00f0ra \u00ed kirkjus\u00f6ng. Dag nokkurn f\u00e9kk Ragnhildur br\u00e9f fr\u00e1 s\u00f3knarnefndinni \u00fear sem kvarta\u00f0 var yfir t\u00f3nlistarvali hennar. Ragnhildur haf\u00f0i nokkru fyrr \u00e1lpast til a\u00f0 segja prestinum a\u00f0 s\u00e1lmur sem fluttur var vi\u00f0 barnask\u00edrn v\u00e6ri t\u00e6past vi\u00f0eigandi. H\u00fan hringdi \u00ed vinkonu s\u00edna \u00ed s\u00f3knarnefndinni og vinkonan kom \u00fe\u00e1 af fj\u00f6llum, s\u00f3knarnefndin haf\u00f0i alls ekkert fjalla\u00f0 um t\u00f3nlistarval \u00ed kirkjunni \u00e1 s\u00ednum fundum. \u00deegar h\u00fan r\u00e6ddi svo m\u00e1lin vi\u00f0 prestinn kom fram a\u00f0 hann haf\u00f0i haft samband vi\u00f0 formann s\u00f3knarnefndar og a\u00f0 hann liti \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00f6grun vi\u00f0 sig \u00feegar h\u00fan l\u00e9ki\u00a0 eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed kirkjunni sem h\u00fan hef\u00f0i ekki \u00e1\u00f0ur bori\u00f0 undir hann. Ragnhildur f\u00f3r a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 prestinum, a\u00f0 hann l\u00e9ki tveimur skj\u00f6ldum; h\u00e9ldi t.d. vi\u00f0 konu sem var starfsma\u00f0ur safna\u00f0arins. En sj\u00e1lf var\u00f0 h\u00fan tauga\u00f3styrk og l\u00e1 andvaka \u00e1 n\u00e6turnar af \u00fev\u00ed henni fannst h\u00fan \u00f3r\u00e9tti beitt.<\/font><\/p>\n

N\u00e6st kom skrifleg kv\u00f6rtun yfir a\u00f0 Ragnhildur hef\u00f0i f\u00e6rt til hluti \u00ed kirkjunni, fari\u00f0 \u00feannig \u00fat fyrir valdsvi\u00f0 sitt og broti\u00f0 af s\u00e9r \u00ed starfi. \u00c1 skipulagsfundum kirkjunnar leit presturinn ekki vi\u00f0 henni og l\u00e9t allar hennar till\u00f6gur sem vind um eyru \u00fej\u00f3ta. Hann var l\u00edka vanur a\u00f0 gera gr\u00edn a\u00f0 till\u00f6gum annarra og tilkynna a\u00f0 hann myndi leysa m\u00e1lin sj\u00e1lfur svo enginn \u00feor\u00f0i a\u00f0 m\u00f3tm\u00e6la honum \u00e1 \u00feessum fundum.<\/font><\/p>\n

Ragnhildur \u00feurfti svo a\u00f0 taka s\u00e9r fr\u00ed vegna veikinda \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni. Presturinn tilkynnti strax a\u00f0 \u00feetta yr\u00f0i launalaust fr\u00ed \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 borga afleysingarmanni og h\u00fan sam\u00feykkti \u00fea\u00f0. Fr\u00edi\u00f0 var\u00f0 nokkrum d\u00f6gum lengra en til st\u00f3\u00f0 \u00ed upphafi en Ragnhildur l\u00e9t vita \u00e1 skrifstofu prestsins. \u00deegar h\u00fan kom aftur heim l\u00e1 br\u00e9f \u00ed p\u00f3stkassanum \u00fear sem henni var tilkynnt a\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0uhlutfall hennar hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 l\u00e6kka\u00f0 ni\u00f0ur \u00ed nokkrar klukkustundir \u00e1 viku. \u00deegar h\u00fan spur\u00f0i prestinn \u00fat \u00ed \u00feetta svara\u00f0i hann pirra\u00f0ur a\u00f0 \u00feetta v\u00e6ri \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un s\u00f3knarnefndar.\u00a0 Hins vegar kom \u00ed lj\u00f3s a\u00f0 s\u00f3knarnefnd haf\u00f0i aldrei fjalla\u00f0 um \u00feetta m\u00e1l heldur haf\u00f0i presturinn fengi\u00f0 formann s\u00f3knarnefndar til a\u00f0 skrifa br\u00e9fi\u00f0.<\/font><\/p>\n

Ragnhildur haf\u00f0i ekki krafta til a\u00f0 standa \u00ed \u00feessu lengur og taldi a\u00f0 ef h\u00fan fylgdi m\u00e1lum eftir yr\u00f0i h\u00fan stimplu\u00f0 sem upphafsma\u00f0ur illinda sem myndi ey\u00f0ileggja starfsferil hennar innan kirkjunnar. H\u00fan sag\u00f0i upp og r\u00e9\u00f0i sig \u00ed a\u00f0ra s\u00f3kn.<\/font>17<\/font><\/sup><\/b>
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Hvernig er sta\u00f0an \u00e1 \u00cdslandi?<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9g get ekki fundi\u00f0 nein d\u00e6mi \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00e6ttuna \u00e1 a\u00f0 si\u00f0blindir s\u00e6ki \u00ed st\u00f6rf innan \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0kirkjunnar hafi einu sinni bori\u00f0 \u00e1 g\u00f3ma. Eina d\u00e6mi\u00f0 \u00fear sem si\u00f0blinda<\/i> \u00ed kirkjunni er beinl\u00ednis nefnd \u00e1 nafn er a\u00f0 prestur segist hafa sagt fyrrum biskupi \u00e1ri\u00f0 1996 a\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri psykopat. \u00cd b\u00e6klingnum Kirkjan m\u00f3tm\u00e6lir ofbeldi gegn konum. Framkv\u00e6mda\u00e1\u00e6tlun fyrir kirkjuna<\/i>\u00a0er minnst \u00e1 andf\u00e9lagslega ofbeldismenn<\/i>: \u201e\u00deeir skiptast almennt \u00ed tvo flokka: – Hinir andf\u00e9lagslegu sem hafa litla sj\u00e1lfstj\u00f3rn, eru uppst\u00f6kkir og ofbeldishneig\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 flestar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. – Hinir d\u00e6miger\u00f0u sem beita einungis maka sinn og b\u00f6rn ofbeldi.\u201c<\/font>18\u00a0 <\/font><\/sup><\/b>\u00d6nnur d\u00e6mi um a\u00f0 kirkjunnar menn e\u00f0a \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0kirkjan sem stofnun hafi br\u00faka\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 si\u00f0blindur (e\u00f0a andf\u00e9lagslegur pers\u00f3nuleiki, v\u00ed\u00f0ara hugtak sem n\u00e6r m.a. yfir si\u00f0blindan) hefur m\u00e9r ekki tekist a\u00f0 finna. E.t.v. eru \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0kirkjunni \u00feessi hugt\u00f6k og \u00feessar mannger\u00f0ir enn \u00f3kunnar.<\/font><\/p>\n

[Vi\u00f0b\u00f3t 1. febr\u00faar 2011. \u00c9g hef rekist \u00e1 \u00f6rf\u00e1 d\u00e6mi \u00ed vi\u00f0b\u00f3t \u00fear sem si\u00f0blindu ber \u00e1 g\u00f3ma \u00ed m\u00e1li kirkjunnar \u00fej\u00f3na. \u00deau eru: <\/font><\/p>\n