{"id":469,"date":"2012-12-02T15:44:32","date_gmt":"2012-12-02T15:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/harpa.blogg.is\/2012-12-02\/er-eg-feministi\/"},"modified":"2013-11-21T09:00:27","modified_gmt":"2013-11-21T09:00:27","slug":"er-eg-feministi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/harpahreins.com\/blogg\/2012\/12\/02\/er-eg-feministi\/","title":{"rendered":"Er \u00e9g fem\u00ednisti?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0\"Fors\ufffd\u00f0a\u00c9g var a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 hefja f\u00e6rsluna \u00e1 d\u00e6miger\u00f0ri fem\u00ednistavitnun, t.d. um \u00fe\u00e1ttt\u00f6ku m\u00edna \u00ed Kvennalistanum og fleiri s\u00e9rkvenlegum f\u00e9lagsskap e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00e6vis\u00f6gulegum vitnisbur\u00f0i … en s\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem \u00feetta k\u00e1fa\u00f0i upp \u00e1 myndu hvort sem er skella skollaeyrum vi\u00f0 svolei\u00f0is tr\u00faarj\u00e1tningu og annar vettvangur en Neti\u00f0 er oft heppilegri fyrir j\u00e1tningar.<\/font><\/p>\n

Skilgreining Fem\u00ednstaf\u00e9lags \u00cdslands \u00e1 fem\u00ednista er: \u201eFem\u00ednisti er karl e\u00f0a kona sem veit a\u00f0 jafnr\u00e9tti kynjanna hefur ekki veri\u00f0 n\u00e1\u00f0 og vill gera eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed.\u201c Samkv\u00e6mt \u00feessari skilgreiningu er \u00e9g fem\u00ednisti. En birtingarmynd fem\u00ednisma \u00e1 \u00cdslandi er talsvert \u00f6nnur og af \u201efr\u00e9ttum\u201c og opinberri umr\u00e6\u00f0u vir\u00f0ast fem\u00ednistar sem telja sig \u00ed forsvari fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i gera \u00fe\u00e1 kr\u00f6fu a\u00f0 almennilegir fem\u00ednistar hafi asklok fyrir himin; allir a\u00f0rir eru andfem\u00ednistar. Fem\u00ednistar og vantr\u00faarf\u00e9lagar hafa saka\u00f0 mig um a\u00f0 vera kvenfjandsamlegur illa innr\u00e6ttur andfem\u00ednisti. \u00dev\u00ed er \u00e9g \u00f3samm\u00e1la en fellst f\u00faslega \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi and\u00e6ft m\u00e1lflutningi \u00feessara h\u00f3pa enda tel \u00e9g fulla \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til \u00feess.<\/font>
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Vettvangur \u00edslenskra fem\u00ednista er Neti\u00f0. \u00dear er annars vegar vefriti\u00f0 Kn\u00faz<\/em> og hins vegar yfirl\u00fdsingar og fr\u00e9ttir fr\u00e1 fem\u00ednistum mest \u00e1berandi, nokkrir fem\u00ednistar reka eigi\u00f0 blogg en flestir blogga sjaldan og slitr\u00f3tt. Kveikjan a\u00f0\u00a0Kn\u00faz<\/em> er f\u00f6gur hugsj\u00f3n og einkunnaror\u00f0in \u00feess bera henni vitni: \u201eAlneti\u00f0 \u00fearf kn\u00faz miklu oftar. Annars breytist \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed v\u00edgv\u00f6ll.\u201c Vefriti\u00f0 ber \u00feessa \u00e6 minni merki; \u00c6 fleiri greinar vir\u00f0ist eing\u00f6ngu hafa \u00feann tilgang a\u00f0 stu\u00f0a f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 einhverjum h\u00e6tti; \u00f6gra e\u00f0a espa til illinda, \u00fe.e. leggja sitt til af m\u00f6rkum til a\u00f0 \u00a0breyta alnetinu \u00ed v\u00edgv\u00f6ll. Af n\u00fdlegum greinum m\u00e1 nefna sem d\u00e6mi Til varnar fem\u00edniskum framhaldssk\u00f3lanemum<\/a> eftir Thomas Brorsen Smidt (29. n\u00f3vember 2012), Drykkjubing\u00f3 fem\u00ednista<\/a> eftir Ing\u00f3lf G\u00edslason (15. n\u00f3vember 2012) og\u00a0 \u201e\u00d6fgafem\u00ednista v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00far str\u00e6t\u00f3: Notar t\u00far til a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna augl\u00fdsingar \u00e1 ap\u00f3tekapokum\u201c MYNDIR<\/a> eftir Hildi Lilliendahl Vigg\u00f3sd\u00f3ttur (21. \u00e1g\u00fast 2012). \u00cd \u00feessum greinum eru mismunandi a\u00f0fer\u00f0ir nota\u00f0ar til a\u00f0 \u00f6gra; \u00f3hefla\u00f0 m\u00e1lfar, smekklaus og f\u00e1r\u00e1nleg tillaga sem l\u00edklega \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera brandari og fr\u00e1s\u00f6gn af l\u00edkamsvessa sem venjulegt f\u00f3lk s\u00e9r ekki \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed h\u00e1m\u00e6li. En inn \u00e1 milli eru sk\u00ednandi g\u00f3\u00f0ar og vanda\u00f0ar greinar \u00e1 vefritinu Kn\u00faz<\/em>, t.d. \u201eH\u00fan skrifa\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u2026 H\u00fan skrifa\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 en h\u00fan hef\u00f0i ekki \u00e1tt a\u00f0 skrifa \u00fea\u00f0 \u2026 H\u00fan skrifa\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 EN \u2026\u201c<\/a> eftir Magneu Matth\u00edasd\u00f3ttur (26. n\u00f3vember 2012) e\u00f0a Birtingarmyndir ford\u00f3ma og mismunar<\/a> eftir Eyju M. Brynjarsd\u00f3ttur (13. n\u00f3vember 2012). \u00c1 Kn\u00faz<\/em> \u00e6gir nefnilega \u00f6llu saman: \u00d3merkilegum kl\u00f6gum\u00e1lum og m\u00e1lefnalegum greinum; Rexi yfir sm\u00e1munum og tilraunum til a\u00f0 fjalla um raunveruleg vandam\u00e1l; \u00d3merkilegum illa skrifu\u00f0um greinum og v\u00f6ndu\u00f0um texta.<\/font><\/p>\n

Yfirl\u00fdsingar og fr\u00e9ttir sem einstakir fem\u00ednistar standa a\u00f0 eru \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur oftast um sm\u00e1muni og vir\u00f0ast einungis til \u00feess \u00e6tla\u00f0ar a\u00f0 n\u00e1 athygli hva\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 kostar, helst me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 espa til illinda. \u00dear ber Hildur Vigg\u00f3sd\u00f3ttir Lilliendahl h\u00f6fu\u00f0 og her\u00f0ar yfir a\u00f0ra fem\u00ednista. (\u00c9g tek fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g tel Hildi ekki bera \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 fr\u00e9ttaflutningi af s\u00e9r nema a\u00f0 takm\u00f6rku\u00f0u leyti. H\u00fan er hins vegar \u00f3deig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vekja athygli \u00e1 s\u00e9r og netmi\u00f0lar sn\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed alla vega.) Undanfari\u00f0 hefur Hildur einkum vaki\u00f0 athygli fyrir tvennt: \u00darklippualb\u00fam me\u00f0 umm\u00e6lum eftir karla, sem kallast Karlar sem hata konur<\/a>, og a\u00f0 Facebook<\/i> hefur fj\u00f3rum sinnum loka\u00f0 a\u00f0gangi hennar af \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan hefur broti\u00f0 reglur samskiptami\u00f0ilsins, reglur sem h\u00fan sam\u00feykkti \u00feegar h\u00fan stofna\u00f0i til a\u00f0gangs a\u00f0 honum.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00darklippusafn Hildar er merkilegt a\u00f0 m\u00ednu mati. Ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00fdni a\u00f0 karlar hati konur \u00ed st\u00f3rum st\u00edl, \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00fdnir ekki einu sinni a\u00f0 karlarnir sem eiga umm\u00e6lin hati konur s\u00e9rstaklega miki\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed umm\u00e6lin eru af \u00fdmsum toga, klippt \u00far samhengi og kr\u00edter\u00edan \u00ed s\u00f6fnuninni \u00f3lj\u00f3s. \u00darklippusafni\u00f0 er fyrst og fremst g\u00f3\u00f0 heimild um or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0u \u00e1 Vefnum. \u00dea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri enginn vandi a\u00f0 b\u00faa til samsvarandi alb\u00fam um eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0, \u00ed svipinn dettur m\u00e9r \u00ed hug: F\u00f3lk sem hatar banka, f\u00f3lk sem hatar l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0inga, f\u00f3lk sem hatar vinstri gr\u00e6na\/ samfylkinguna\/ sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0isflokkinn … n\u00fa e\u00f0a s\u00e9rh\u00e6f\u00f0ari alb\u00fam eins og f\u00f3lk sem hatar Hildi Lilliendahl, vantr\u00faarf\u00e9lagar sem hata Bjarna Randver Sigurvinsson, fem\u00ednistar sem hata Brynjar N\u00edelsson o.s.fr. Or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00e1 Vefnum ver\u00f0ur s\u00edfellt gr\u00f3fari og er merkilegt ranns\u00f3knarefni a\u00f0 m\u00ednu mati. \u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 h\u00e6gt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 greina kynja\u00f0a or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0u \u00feegar \u00feessi vettvangur er sko\u00f0a\u00f0ur en \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri vissulega \u00e1hugavert a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 ranns\u00f3kn \u00e1 sl\u00edku og ver\u00f0ugt efni fyrir m\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0inga sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 muninum \u00e1 m\u00e1lsni\u00f0i kvenna og karla.<\/font><\/p>\n

\"Augl\u00fdsingab\u00e6klinguVi\u00f0 lestur netmi\u00f0la f\u00e6r al\u00fe\u00fd\u00f0an sm\u00e1m saman \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 fem\u00ednismi sn\u00faist um sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i eins og hvort b\u00f3kaforlagi s\u00e9 yfirh\u00f6fu\u00f0 heimilt a\u00f0 gefa \u00fat gamaldags b\u00e6kur fyrir karlb\u00f6rn og kvenb\u00f6rn, hvort veri\u00f0 geti a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsing hafi kynfer\u00f0islega sk\u00edrskotun og feli \u00ed s\u00e9r ni\u00f0url\u00e6gingu kvenkyns nemenda, me\u00f0 \u00edtrustu t\u00e1knfr\u00e6\u00f0ilegri t\u00falkun, hvort eigi\/megi kl\u00e6\u00f0a stelpur og str\u00e1ka \u00ed bleik og bl\u00e1 f\u00f6t, hvort eigi\/megi gefa litlum stelpum og str\u00e1kum meint stelpuleikf\u00f6ng og str\u00e1kaleikf\u00f6ng, hvort d\u00f3nalegan menntask\u00f3lah\u00famor eigi a\u00f0 skilja sem sv\u00edvir\u00f0ilega \u00e1r\u00e1s fe\u00f0raveldisins \u00e1 allt kvenkyns o.s.fr. Hver fr\u00e9tt er bl\u00e1sin upp \u00far \u00f6llu valdi og ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 nethamf\u00f6rum, hvort sem um er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a augl\u00fdsingu sem l\u00edklega hef\u00f0i\u00a0ella vaki\u00f0 litla athygli\u00a0e\u00f0a a\u00f0 Facebook<\/em> lokar a\u00f0gangi Hildar Lilliendahl jafnt og annarra notenda sem tilkynnt er um a\u00f0 hafi broti\u00f0 notendareglur Facebook<\/em>. \u00deegar b\u00fai\u00f0 er a\u00f0 endurtaka n\u00f3gu oft a\u00f0 Hildur Lilliendahl hafi fengi\u00f0 l\u00edfl\u00e1tsh\u00f3tun er \u00fea\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 satt og geirneglt \u00ed hugum manna \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00f3m\u00f6gulegt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 lesa l\u00edfl\u00e1tsh\u00f3tun \u00far umm\u00e6lunum sem ur\u00f0u kveikjan a\u00f0 f\u00e1rinu; L\u00f6greglan \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk skal hafa gert l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far kynfer\u00f0islegri misbeitingu \u00fe\u00f3tt engin lei\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 \u00fat \u00far fr\u00e9tt hennar um manninn sem var hent \u00fat \u00far eigin \u00edb\u00fa\u00f0 a\u00f0 um sl\u00edkt hafi veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a; Kvikmyndask\u00f3li \u00cdslands hampar kl\u00e1mi og ni\u00f0url\u00e6gir kvenkyns nemendur me\u00f0 augl\u00fdsingu; Hagkaup selur d\u00f3nalegan undirfatna\u00f0 \u00e1 sm\u00e1stelpur o.s.fr.\u00a0<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00dear sem ekki er vandam\u00e1l en \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera vandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 mati fem\u00ednista eru \u00feau b\u00fain til. \u00deetta m\u00e1 t.d. sj\u00e1 \u00ed n\u00fdlegum b\u00e6klingi Mannr\u00e9ttindaskrifstofu Reykjav\u00edkur, Kl\u00e1m er kynfer\u00f0isleg \u00e1reitni<\/a> eftir Thomas Brorsen Smith (Einar Steingr\u00edmsson ger\u00f0i \u00feessum b\u00e6klingi, ranns\u00f3kn h\u00f6fundar og t\u00falkun \u00e1g\u00e6t skil \u00ed f\u00e6rslunni Reykjav\u00edkurborg me\u00f0 kl\u00e1m \u00e1 heilanum?<\/a> 2. apr\u00edl 2012 og \u00e9g v\u00edsa \u00ed f\u00e6rslu hans til r\u00f6kstu\u00f0nings) e\u00f0a skemmtilegi farsinn um \u00f3nefndan d\u00f3nalegan leynigest \u00ed Harmageddon, kv\u00f6rtun Hildar Lilliendahl og \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un \u00fe\u00e1ttarstj\u00f3rnenda a\u00f0 reka sj\u00e1lfa sig til a\u00f0 undirstrika alvarleika kv\u00f6rtunarinnar. Netmi\u00f0lar flytja alv\u00f6rugefnar fr\u00e9ttir af \u00feessum \u00f3skunda einmitt n\u00fana um helgina.<\/font><\/p>\n

\u00c9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 fjalla um \u00fdmis raunveruleg vandam\u00e1l sem \u00edslenskir fem\u00ednistar hunsa og um aflei\u00f0ingar \u00feessara bar\u00e1ttua\u00f0fer\u00f0a sem \u00e9g hef raki\u00f0 h\u00e9r a\u00f0 ofan en \u00fe\u00e1 yr\u00f0i f\u00e6rslan of l\u00f6ng svo \u00e9g geymi \u00feau umr\u00e6\u00f0uefni.<\/font><\/p>\n

Myndirnar sem skreyta \u00feessa f\u00e6rslu eru af augl\u00fdsingab\u00e6klingi Sm\u00e1ralindar vori\u00f0 2007, en um \u00feessa mynd er haft eftir dr. Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rgu Hildi Kolbeins: \u201e\u00c1 fors\u00ed\u00f0unni m\u00e1 sj\u00e1 unga st\u00falku \u00e1 h\u00e1um h\u00e6lum \u00ed vel\u00feekktri stellingu \u00far kl\u00e1mmyndum. H\u00fan er tilb\u00fain til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta taka sig aftan fr\u00e1. Me\u00f0 munninn opinn b\u00fd\u00f0ur h\u00fan lesendum af karlkyni a\u00f0 setja skaufa s\u00edna upp \u00ed sig\u201c (Gu\u00f0bj\u00f6rg Hildur Kolbeins barst eil\u00edti\u00f0 \u00ed tal \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0um um s\u00ed\u00f0ustu f\u00e6rslu m\u00edna og \u00fe\u00e1 n\u00e6sts\u00ed\u00f0ustu) og fors\u00ed\u00f0u Vikunnar<\/i> 1939<\/a> (um hana hafa fem\u00edniskir fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lafr\u00e6\u00f0ingar ekki tj\u00e1\u00f0 sig en \u00e9g vek athygli \u00feeirra \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 st\u00falkan er me\u00f0 opinn munn, \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9st gl\u00f6ggt \u00e1 frumheimildinni sem \u00e9g v\u00edsa \u00ed).<\/font><\/p>\n

P.s. Var\u00f0andi s\u00ed\u00f0ustu f\u00e6rslu m\u00edna og umr\u00e6\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 hana: \u00c9g hef raki\u00f0 n\u00fat\u00edma\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0s\u00f6guna um G-strengi handa fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra st\u00falkub\u00f6rnum sem Hagkaup ku selja og I’m a Porn Star barnaboli aftur \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0u \u00e1 Barnalandi 2005<\/a>; \u00fea\u00f0 er elsta umr\u00e6\u00f0a sem \u00e9g finn um I’m a Pornstar\/I’m a Pornstar in Training barnaboli sem Hagkaup \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa selt \u201efyrir nokkrum \u00e1rum\u201c og umr\u00e6\u00f0an f\u00e6rist s\u00ed\u00f0an yfir \u00ed G-strengi fyrir fimm \u00e1ra. \u00deessi umr\u00e6\u00f0a gengur aftur \u00e1 yngri barnalandsspjallbor\u00f0um, femin.is og hugi.is en\u00a0 ef einhver veit um eldri heimild er \u00e1bending vel \u00feegin. Sagan um Pornstar barnabolina \u00ed Hagkaup m\u00e1 sj\u00e1 v\u00ed\u00f0ar, t.d. \u00ed birtu lokaverkefni nemanda \u00ed framhaldsn\u00e1mi \u00ed\u00a0hagn\u00fdtri fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lun vi\u00f0 H\u00e1sk\u00f3la \u00cdslands, sj\u00e1 ritger\u00f0ina Kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingin og \u00e1hrif hennar \u00e1 \u00edslensk ungmenni \u00e1 vefsetrinu Heimas\u00ed\u00f0a Beddu<\/em><\/a>\u00a0en \u00fear er ekki v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00ed heimild.\u00a0\u00a0Haldi fem\u00ednistar \u00e1fram sama m\u00e1lflutningi m\u00e1 \u00e6tla a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0sagan um I’m a Porn Star in Training barnabolina og G-strengi fyrir b\u00f6rn \u00ed verslunum Hagkaups ver\u00f0i \u00fatbreiddari en sagan af kettinum \u00ed \u00f6rbylgjuofninum \ud83d\ude09<\/font>
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